@Setanta,
You were talking about the "Zubrin,McKay proposal for getting water/Ns and COs and some O2 onto Mars (with a concomitant rie in temp of about 3 C PER WHACK event. As I read about the S/M concept, it had pretty been much dropped by any international committee on Mars Colonization because the full load of "Ice Ball" hits would render Mars uninhabitable for several centuries . (And we are a species of poor strategic abilities). So I think the concepts of "mining gase and combining that with building "Greenhouse gas" factories , or using "Space mirrors"will probably be the chosen technologies because humans could gradually populate the areas even before the atmosphere was at a critical T/P/O level.
Were just sitting here speculating so theres really no "correct answer", just some proposals and some considerations about "fatal flaws" I think that e are no longer in the realms of SCiFi about the concept of terraforming.
Your point of having a Martian atmosphere go bye bye with just a decent sized bolide hit or a decent size solar Mass ejection would be a big problem for a planet with such a gravity . All the work of building an atmosphere would have to be started all over and there would need to be some kind of emergency restoration system (or else all the cities would need to be DOMED or UNDERGROUND for the long term.
Id love to be able to go and do the first resource surveys (especially be running a group of kids doing a "chemical oxygen survey" (Wherein wed be looking for minerals of SO4/CO3/ (probably carbonotites) and all kinds of Silicates (Si3O8/SiO2/SiO4 etc).Theres lotsa "bucket oxygen just sitting in rock structure and we can use the residue as building material as we mine oxygen)