@jadeamber,
Why is he using you like that (taking care of his kids) and then advertising to all who'll listen about the breakup. That is ...to say the least...not sensitive to you at all.
If you two could have worked out by now, you would have done so. This is broken and can't be fixed.
This is bizarre behavior and you're cooperating for some reason. Try caring less what you think others might be thinking of you. Ultimately you have no idea what they're thinking and it doesn't matter. They aren't you and don't have your best interests at heart. Only you do.
My (free advice): Move on. You're being kept (albeit by your own cooperation) from possibly finding someone who really can give you a committed future. He's taking advantage of you and using his children as pawns.