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Sun 18 Apr, 2004 01:36 pm
I've always wanted to join Toastmasters (well-known worldwide public speaking group) to improve my communication skills. Unfortunately, I haven't done it because several people have told me that most of the people there are over 40, and I've always felt uneasy around people in that age range.
Any pointers on how to get over my 'uneasiness', and join the group since it'll help me in the long run?
If you are going to go in for public speaking, your audience might well be of diverse ages. It might be very good for you to become comfortable in the controlled environment of the group.
The next thing that you might want to consider is WHY you feel uncomfortable. Are you aware that the people in A2K run the gamut of ages?
Phoenix32890 wrote:If you are going to go in for public speaking, your audience might well be of diverse ages. It might be very good for you to become comfortable in the controlled environment of the group.
The next thing that you might want to consider is WHY you feel uncomfortable. Are you aware that the people in A2K run the gamut of ages?
I'm aware that there are different age groups on A2K, but that's online so it's completely different.
I probably feel uncomfortable because a lot of people that I've met in that age group are witty. Always having something witty to say, forcing me to reply with a witty remark. I'm not good at 'thinkin on my feet' so I rarely make a decent reply.
Blackie, the only people I've ever known who joined Toastmaster's were in their 20's, but that was nearly 20 years ago.
Why don't you come practice with some Toronto A2K'ers? We're getting together for a meal next Saturday afternoon - Kim Hoa on Spadina. It looks like it will be the ages will be from lateish 20's up.
Blackie_Chan- Only a few lucky folks are "born witty". For most of us, it is an acquired skill. The fortyish people have had many years to hone their skills. I would bet, that if you got to know a few of them, you would find that at an earlier age, it was just as difficult for them to be "witty" as it is for you.
If you really want something, IMO you need to take a risk. Many older people enjoy mentoring younger ones. Try it, and don't give up. You have nothing to lose. Good luck!
Hi Blackie
I sat in on a local meeting recently. The ages varied a lot. There were a couple younger people in there. You aren't expected to be witty, you know!
Join! You'll be fine!
I've sat in on TMs meetings. I'll be joining myself shortly. I suck at public speaking...
Blackie, I know someone in her late twenties who was a member. She enjoyed it thoroughly. Give it a try.
Hmmmm. I miss public speaking. I haven't done it for a while. A great natural high.
I love public speaking. Haven't done enough of it in the last year or so, and miss it.
You guys must be good at it, then!
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