@soundsighted,
If a man had his penis cut off by his wife, women everywhere would cheer and laugh, and somehow that would be socially acceptable (and NOT AT ALL SEXIST.) But if a man tells a woman she's a **** (most likely because she deserves it), the whole world has a self pity trip and wears pink ribbons to draw attention to "female empowerment". How in the world is that an equal balance???