@ArmyMom2,
Keep your finances separate. Create a joint account just for these kinds of expenses, which you and your boyfriend will contribute to. He should keep his own account as well.
As for how much to pay, why would you pay the same amount as him? He's got 3 people living there. You are but 1. Pay 1/4 and set aside the rest as your own funds.
Unless you adopt either of these girls, you are not financially responsible for them. Don't start setting a precedent and an expectation. If the relationship goes south, do you really want to be on the hook for tuition for them?