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how 2 cure my LAZYNESS please...

 
 
Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 06:12 am
hi everyone, first of all i wanna thank-u for d support u all give me..

lately..it seems as if i caught d LAZYNESS VIRUS cause am i SO SO LAZY and i am doing nothing!! i don't study, don't do my essays (i still go to school, i am a 17-year old), i don't help my mum anymore, i am not even doing my room lately.. i am so lazy! how can i overcome my lazyness?? pls help me!

all i just do these days is watch dvd's, [but i get bored], listen 2 music and dance [i really enjoy doing that!!} and i live as if i am living only for the weekends COS' I SPEND THE WHOLE WEEKEND OUT WITH MY FRIENDS, HAVING FUN AND ENJOYING OURSELVES.. i think that's the only thing i love doing, without ever getting lazy or bored.. i get bored by other things. .

i think i only like my whole life to be LEISURE/FREE TIME only and no WORK, never..and that's my problem.. i have to cure my lazyness somehow [ cos'i am doin' nothing, i got my A'Levels in two months time], i wanted to complete school and go to university..but now i don't wanna go [lazy me].. [if i want, i can succeed cos'i am intelligent and was always in the best classes with bright student but now i'm falling behind]

this lazyness is killing me. . .

how now to be lazy any more?? what do i do??? pls help.
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cavfancier
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 06:21 am
Hmm...you have exams coming up, the laziness could be stress-related. The only cure for that is to focus, and get your head together, which IS hard. The thing is, it's neccessary to succeed in this world. Also, if it is medical, only a doctor can diagnose that. Has a doctor given you a proper diagnosis for your case, or is it just speculation?
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baywatch babe
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 06:30 am
no no.. it is my speculation...

i am being very very lazy lately. . .

[ i'd love 2 sleep all day ..zzzzzZZZZZ ]

so lazy, i am doin' NOTHING!!
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Phoenix32890
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 06:43 am
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[ i'd love 2 sleep all day ..zzzzzZZZZZ ]


baywatch babe- I think that cav is on the right track. Whenever I hear a person talking about being perpetually "bored", I translate that to "depressed". Also, wanting to sleep all day, may be a sign of depression.

Seventeen is a hard age. You are at the point in life where a lot of adult decisions have to be made. Many young people get "stuck" at this point in their life, and need some help making the transition from adolescence to adulthood.

I agree with cav. Have yourself checked out by a doctor to see if there is anything physical going on. If that is ok, you might want to talk to a therapist who specializes in working with young people. Don't wait until the situation gets out of hand. Good luck, and let us know how you are doing!
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kickycan
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 12:53 pm
Of course you could be depressed, but you could also just be a normal 17-year-old. Do your friends that you hang out with on the weekends feel the same laziness?
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InTraNsiTiOn
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 01:10 pm
Do you or did you ever happen to smoke a large amount of marijane over a big span of time?
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kickycan
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 01:13 pm
Yes, I have. Oh, you were probably asking baywatch. He he.
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InTraNsiTiOn
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 01:20 pm
LOL..yes I was kicky, but now I have more info on you!!!!!
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 02:50 pm
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 03:01 pm
That is a great book.
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kickycan
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 03:03 pm
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cavfancier
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 03:18 pm
Atlas Shrugged and Ayn Rand coz is wuz scary...
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kickycan
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 03:27 pm
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SCoates
 
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Reply Wed 10 Mar, 2004 06:05 pm
I also came in to suggest depression. Even if you don't necessarily feel depressed in can be a chemical imbalance, classified as depression. Do you feel that others seem to be able to have fun more easily than you? Do you constantly need to be doing something exciting to be happy? I think you said so. Your signs match depression too perfectly. It could be hereditary, or it could be a matter of circumstance -- environment, or even diet. Do you excercise regularly?
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ikkkkuh
 
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Reply Tue 20 Apr, 2004 08:59 am
no problem, just be active, it can be a hard job, and, if that won't work:
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Also, wanting to sleep all day, may be a sign of depression.

This is the best advice (i think).. Smile
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Centroles
 
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Reply Fri 23 Apr, 2004 11:44 am
welcome to a2k ikkkkuh Smile

It could be depression.

But you know something, I've been feeling really lazy for like that for the past two years or so. And I'm definately not depressed. Save for one or two minor things, I absolutely love everything about my life.

If you're having fun with friends on weekends, it's probably not depression. With depression, one of the main signs is that you don't enjoy any aspect of life too much.

It could be general anxiety or have been triggered by a specific anxiety. For me I know that the laziness all started with this one lab class that I was having a lot of trobule passing all the labs. If you can't finish every lab without less than a 1% error, you fail the class. I stopped going to all my other classes, slept all the time but really focused on that one lab, didn't do much work otherwise and the laziness didn't go away even after it all worked out. But now I think I'm generally anxious about med school.

Are you maybe anxious about college? Trust me, I was worried about college too but it turned out to be even more fun than highschool. You have so much more freedom, so much less busy work, and as long as you keep up with the material, you get more free time than you ever did in high school. And I think the teachers grade a lot easier too. Just make good friends early on and keep up with the work and you'll have a great time.
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Centroles
 
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Reply Fri 23 Apr, 2004 11:47 am
Oh and one more thing, if you're doing fine in school, just find something productive and active that you enjoy an do it every day before you have to do other work.

Laziness builds on itself. But if you do something active and fun before trying to do work, you'll be so much more productive. For you, dancing could work.
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kickycan
 
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Reply Fri 23 Apr, 2004 11:49 am
You should play with yourself as much as possible. Maybe that's just me.
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clyean
 
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Reply Wed 18 Aug, 2004 11:49 am
my hands are terribly heavy to pick up a pencil
My laziness is terribly high and i don't know how to cure it. Everyday i feel like wanting to go the bed and at night i only wakeup.

When assignments that college gave me, i tend to do last minute work, and i really mean last minute work, that is 3 hours before handing in and the work is a one month work and i do it like for only 3 hours. And the work i handin is terrible.

i don't know what happen to me. Might be depress. i ccan say that i work well in college for my previous semesters and also consider a top student. Might be my expectation from myself to high until i can't cope with wat i wan untill i became so lazy and feel like giving up. My friend and lecturer also ask me why i've become like this? the only answer i gave them was lazy sickness

i really need help to change my attitude or behaviour. But i'm too stubborn to change myself even i understand the causes that bring me to laziness...do you think i need a doctor or something....i'm really depress.. this is my final semester and i don't wan to ruin it.....but i'm terribly lazy...that'll result of failure Sad
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