@Setanta,
I agree, but there are many Asian families that do not actively push their children to succeed. Our family is third generation Japanese-American from a very poor family background; we lived in hostels when we were children, and really didn't have our own 'home' until I was in my late teens. Our family really didn't have a father-figure, but all my siblings and their children have accomplished what we consider the "model minority." My older brother became a lawyer, and ended up as an administrative judge in CA, my younger brother an ophthalmologist and politician, and my sister a RN.
I'm really not sure why we were able to accomplish what we did.
As a young adult, I used to feel proud that we were considered the "model minority," but the fact hit me hard that many Japanese-Americans commit the same crimes as everybody else. Reading about them made me cringe. I have also learned that many live in poverty, and struggle like most poor people.
My story can probably be used by all the other so-called model minorities; we must never forget that we are all the same. I know that some minorities are still treated differently in this country, and that's our greatest weakness. Racial bigotry pops up all over this country, because people are insecure in their own skin.