@Ceili,
You just happen to find yourself in amazing situations then.
@Ceili,
I was in this situation recently, and I reacted like it was my own family. I'd expect most people to act that way. I have noticed some other cultures are surprised by this view, however.
(it's quite a story, but a long one. I could post it but would take a few pages)
The only medical emergencies I've encountered were not out in public, but in my own home. Only mothers know how many medical emergencies occur while along in the house with babies and/or toddlers.
When my boys were 3 and 1 yrs. I was sitting on the floor playing with them when the 3 yr. old smacked the 1 yr. old between his shoulders, throwing his head back a bit. Well, I took the time to scold the oldest, then turned around and the 1 yr. old was turning blue. In a flash I turned him upside down, put my two fingers on his tongue, slapping gently on his back. Out popped a (I think you call it a nut) round thing with hole in middle.
What a scare! Almost as frightening as when the oldest was about 6. He hit the glass storm door, broke it and was standing there wedged between two points of glass, back and front. Luckily, he was wearing this huge fluffy teddy bear kind of snow jacket. So, I just kinda pulled him outta there. It was only later that I realized what could have happened. Good grief.
I attended a class in cpr when doing volunteer work at an unwed mothers' home here, babysitting while the mothers attend classes and whatever else. So, should I have to confront a medical emergency anywhere I sure wouldn't just stand there.
I also have been in a critical life or death situation on holiday in a non english speaking country - my story is way too long to post, but I always thought I would 'vomit' or 'pass out' if I saw blood and tissue and be absolutely useless, but I didn't, its like something else kicks in and you do what you are supposed to do with out thinking about it.
@Ceili,
The sad thing from some of what I am reading is - your response is not normal.