Fruitcake has so many ingredients that I don't like. The things never stood a chance with me. Homemade is probably worse than store-bought. They feel heavier. Nasty.
Let's see what's in there - dried fruit - bleccccccccch; rum - bleccccccccch; slivered almonds - bleccccccccccccch. Yup, there's no way I could like fruitcake. I disliked my aunt's homemade honeycake even more. Every year she made some for me and hamburger. Every year we had to find a way to get rid of the stuff.
Now, a good stollen - with my personal modifications - paradise. Raisins, currants, no other fruit, no nuts, a heavy yeasty bread, wrapped in brandy-soaked tea towels. It's like very boozy raisin toast. Yummmmmm.
It is actually rather nice toasted, with sweet butter. Yup. Nice.