@brokenheartsadheart,
Quote:btw it does not take much longer than a week for anyone else to reject me and i tryed makeing friends for years
I think people find other people's depression and negativity very tiring and hard to deal with. If you talk to people in real life in the same self-pitying tone that you've used here you you will turn them away. That may not seem kind or fair - but i think it's true. If you look at getting out and doing things as 'distracting' yourself I don't think it will work. Instead you need to say that you deserve a life and go out and get it. Join a club, take classes, play a sport, volunteer to help people who are less fortunate than yourself. And when you meet new people out there you don't need to tell them in the first week that you suffer depression, or that your mother suicided or anything negative about your life...talk about what you have in common - and more importantly ask them about their lives. Be interested in other people. True friendship wil follow from there.
I don't know you at all so these comments are just based on the impression I get from your post - I hope you're not offended by them and I wish you luck.
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