Re: How far back?
Tarah wrote:I'm always put off joining any thread more than a few pages as I don't have time to read all the posts on it. What should I do when I want to join a 64 page thread? Read the first and last pages and not worry about the rest of it?
I do worry about the part of the thread I don't have the time (or inclination) to read. The thought of being redundant to someone else's prior point is disconcerting to me, unless I say specifically I agree with that prior point.
Coming into a thread, without really understanding all the points made, is
my being too obtrusive, in my opinion, in
my own "thread habits," so I don't want to do it. If others choose to do that, I understand not everyone wants to approach a thread in the way
that I think reflects a "complete" and methodical and analytical way. Anyone's "thread paradigm is
one's own choice, and it's none of my business. Nor, should I comment on it. I just have my own "thread obsessions."
In the way of analogy, I don't want to be like a kid at the beach that sits down, next to other kids, that just spent the last hour building a sand castle, and I start to dig and shovel sand like their past hour-long effort means nothing to me. I know kids up to a certain age only do "parallel play." I would hope at this point, I'm not doing that.