Fri 2 Oct, 2009 01:42 pm - Generally, in healthy relationships, the idea of "whether" to move forward isn't an issue. Given that you both talked about dating one another "A LOT" before doing so... (view)
Mon 20 Apr, 2009 10:32 pm - No. It's just that widow(er)s are like drug addicts. They all deny they have a problem and are oblivious of the harm they do to others while they are are in recovery. (view)
Mon 20 Apr, 2009 10:28 pm - You're right. She's in mourning for her husband and her life. That's the whole point.. People who are in mourning do not have an emotionally or spiritually healthy disposition,... (view)
Mon 20 Apr, 2009 10:05 pm - No. You are not crazy, but by trying to engage in an intimate relationship with someone who is clearly not emotionally healthy, you are at risk of co-dependency. Widow(er)s are a lot like drug... (view)
Sun 25 Jan, 2009 11:05 pm - Quite frankly, you shouldn't be looking for a replacement for your fiancee. You shouldn't even be comparing someone to your late fiancee and if you still find yourself doing that, then... (view)
Wed 20 Aug, 2008 12:18 am - "He doesnt want to have to look at pics of my ex. I am trying to figure out how this is fair. "
Good lord, girlfriend. How in the world could you possibly think that there is anything... (view)
Fri 15 Aug, 2008 11:46 am - Good girl! You very likely just headed off an affair... you know, the "I didn't plan it, it just happened," kind of affair.
"he said there was no reason to be... (view)
Sat 9 Aug, 2008 07:25 pm - Dating a Widow (er)
Robbthefirefly. I am so glad that my post was helpful. You need to know that you are not alone and that you are NOT a bad person for wanting to be loved and to be in a... (view)
Thu 7 Aug, 2008 05:18 pm - Dating a Widow/ Widower
I wholeheartedly agree with Great Laker. An old rule for recovering from ANY relationship says that it takes about one year for every four years you were with someone to... (view)
