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Is there proof God exists?

 
 
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Reply Mon 11 May, 2009 02:42 am
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This discussion is growing further and further from the practical way this whole thing plays out.

How do you know how this thing plays out in my life? I'm not Pat Robertson or Jerry Falwell. You don't watch my day to day living. You have no idea how it plays out in my life.
It seems you have a lot of preconceived notions about a lot of things. Maybe you should open YOUR mind- just a little bit.

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The way this actually plays out in life; the moment when a quest for faith comes in conflict with a quest to understand nature is usually when faith asks the individual to stop. Stop asking questions.

I have never stopped asking questions. I can never remember being asked by anyone to stop asking questions. In fact, not to brag, but at the last public highschool I taught at which was ranked 52 of public highschools in the US and had 1600 students and an incredibly accomplished and diverse faculty - I was given the distinction of having been voted by students and faculty an example of a 'lifelong learner'.
No big deal to you maybe, but I was pretty proud of that - especially that I had seemed to convey the NEED for that to the students.
It's in my personnel file - you can check Laughing Laughing

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When the person who has studied nature is interested in what faith has to offer, they are asked to forget what they have learned about the universe and simply have faith.

Wrong, in my case. I am fully able to have faith and understand and believe in evolution. And I have never been asked to forget anything I've learned anywhere by anyone
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and if I had questions about the universe pursuing those questions are not welcome in a faith.

Do you even go to gatherings of any sort where people of any faith discuss these things? Or are you basing your impressions on what you read in the newspaper about rabid, creationist, right wing christianity?
Talk about not questioning...
You're simply wrong (in my case) and in many others I would venture to guess. I won't make blanket generalizations as you seem wont to do.

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if I had questions about the universe pursuing those questions are not welcome in a faith.

Really? Where has this happened to you? Specifically what faith and in what church?
Or do you just KNOW that it would happen in every faith and in any faith-based gathering? And also that it happens to EVERYONE....
So who's the one who's not questioning?

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You've got it for now? Got what?

Most of the relevant science-based information that's been discovered about the origins and history of the earth in the past century. I have also asked questions and had them answered by people who have PhD's in geology and biology and physics (whom I happened to interact with on a daily basis in my job) and listened to their answers.
And guess what - I BELIEVE what they told me. I READ what they gave me to read and I even UNDERSTAND it.
And I don't find that it contradicts even one single bit of my FAITH at all. These facts and my faith live happily side by side within me.
You don't even know what my faith IS...and you're telling me I can't have it and believe the facts.

How arrogant!

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It is not that a disinterest in understanding nature makes a person boring, but rather a non-interest in knowing the implications of nature on man and its creations that make a person intellectually neutered.


I'd venture to say that I've studied and observed nature at least as much as you have - probably more because I grew up in it and still experience it (by choice) on a daily basis (another one of my NEEDS that you would probably deny is a NEED) and I've lived twice as long as you have.
Get a clue Diest.

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How does a faith being long lasting give it value if it is wrong?
How can a faith be "meaningful" if it is factually wrong?

Those are actually good questions.
But those were your descriptor- long lasting and meaningful- not mine.
I was just quoting you.
I think that's a topic for another thread though.

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Ack! More origins of the universe! The topic is much more diverse than just that.

Of course it is, and extremely interesting. I sat in an Earth Science course a few years ago and learned a lot - but in my mind- and I think it's commonly agreed, we've collected data that has answered many, many questions. But the outstanding and unanswered, and most interesting question (to me, maybe not to you) is still - how the whole thing was set in motion. The origin.

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What makes you think we can have no definitive answer?

I don't think we can't. I just know that right now we don't.
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Is this what faith says?

Not mine.
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Is this what you believe of science?

No, I'm amazed at the advances that have been made in science and technology.
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I'm just curious. Are you under some assumption that intellectually religion has science at a stalemate?

No.

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I'm not telling people to put down their guitars at the open mic night. I'm not telling them to huddle up so we can talk about the origins of the universe. I'm saying that to reject science and logic for faith is intellectually shallow.

I know many people of faith who don't do that and never would.
Again, I think you have a false and unilateral view. Or maybe it has to do with you living in the south or Bible belt. Who the heck knows.
I have never found this is be a necessity in any of the places I have lived.

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Your motive for pursuing faith and the pursuit to understand people are not one and the same. They are two different quests, and even they can conflict much like science and faith can conflict.

Wow Diest, you seem to know more about me than I know about myself.


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Faith will tell a Christian that homosexuality is a sin/amoral . A quest to understand people has lead great minds in psychology to think that homosexuality has natural origins; that it is not a choice. If it is not a choice, how can it be sin? If it is natural, and yet still a sin somehow to choose to live as a homosexual, then the person is defying the nature that god gave them. Again, faith conflicts. In this case it conflicts internally with it's own logic.

Yes, certainly. As I said in the last post, each quest for faith has an objective and directive as individual as each person on that quest.
I don't believe homosexuality is a sin. I also don't believe it's my role to focus on what others do that may or may not constitute a sin.
I monitor my own behavior and actually, 'sin' is a word I don't use or see very often.
Not really a concept I embrace.
Maybe you should reexamine what you know about ALL FAITHS and the practices of ALL SEEKERS OF FAITH...

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Thats for you to sort out, but I don't expect you to challenge your current comfort zone.

Why not? Do you know me that well? Interesting because you've never met me. Or do you think that all people who have any faith at all in anything have a particular comfort zone and want to stay there?
And you know this how?
My question is why you find it necessary to communicate in such a derisive and derogatory tone?
My faith would not allow me to treat or talk to another person that way.

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What other aspects of who you are would you give up? How far would you take this? At what point would you draw the line? At what point would you be satisfied in knowing that holding on it faith and letting other things go in your life that you valued was NOT worth it?

Theoretical question but interesting. I'd have to think more about that. Maybe a good idea for another thread (generalized though to embrace more and different conceptual entities- explaining this whole faith thing to people who haven't experienced and don't understand what faith is or means to someone gets BORING....(kidding - but it does feel sort of futile)
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I'll ask you a personal question. If it's too personal, I understand.

Have you ever lost your mother or father?

Not yet.

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I have only known a world with both of them. I cannot imagine my world without them. If either or both was gone, I would feel a certain emptiness. I would feel much like you've expressed what your loss of faith would (as you imagine at least) feeling like. In the face of all of that, I know that day will come. I know there will be a day that I will have to know a world without them. I fully admit that I am not prepared for that day, but I am forced to accept that come that day or some day to follow it, I will and must survive. More than survive, I will need to thrive.

Yes. My mother and father are why I have faith, in anything, especially myself. I can't even express to you how gifted I feel to have been born to these two specific people.
They have given me everything and just continue to give.
I will lose them sooner rather than later now, I know that and it's a wrenching thought to me. It makes me cry, right now, just thinking about it.
But I wouldn't be able to denounce my faith to keep them with me. It would be like saying to someone, 'I don't have freckles.' I DO...I just do.
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I cannot understand how the absence of faith could ever compare to a loss such as this, and how if we can live and thrive even after such a loss as that, how it can even be entertained that a loss of faith would be something that we could not only get over, but thrive in spite of.

It has something to do with hope for me.
And I can never give up hope - it's ridiculous I know.
My son says to me - 'You are just fucking TENACIOUS..' (when he gets frustrated with me).
And I am - I know that.
But one thing I'm not is ignorant.

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Aside from the joke, do you disagree with this statement?

No, I agree it can have the same affect as a mood enhancing drug. But it's natural (to me).
No harmful side effects (for me).
But my dose is moderate and informed by information, observation and rational and intelligent care.

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I'm not saying a discussion of feelings/emotions is off limits here aidan. But lets be clear, those things are wants. I would never say wants are trivial or that they aren't important, but even importance is a subjective measure.

And a NEED is subjective. Determined by what one does or doesn't have. My Brain produces enough serotonin and dopamine, so I don't NEED antidepressants.
But I talked to my friend last night, and her brain doesn't work as mine does.
To save her life - not just to get through it - to save it - she NEEDS something different than I do.

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Just stop screwing up the science standards in our schools.

Yeah, well, again- you say you lived in Missouri and Virginia. I taught for twenty years in public highschools in six different states on the east coast - one in the south, although it was in Chapel Hill, which is a fairly cosmopolitan town as far as the south goes- and I never heard a word of Creationism even breathed in a science classroom.
I think it's much less widespread than people perceive.
And as the whole tenor of the political and educational culture begin their shift, I'm sure we'll be less and less inundated by inflamed articles about it in the press.


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I promise you that I could never tell you or another person what they were, and you could figure it out.

Not from reading/speaking with them on the internet.
I think self-reporting (even if it's dishonest- that tells you something in itself) is essential in terms of gaining a deep and thorough understanding of a person.




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Reply Mon 11 May, 2009 11:34 am
I am very pleased that you are neither Pate Robertson nor Jerry Falwell. If this was just about two men (or a handful of say a thousand or two) I probably wouldn't care too much about it. It is not. As you have noted, I've lived in Missouri and in Virginia. I can't really speak for Virginia as much, but as for Missouri, I could write volumes for the clash of faith and science.

How this plays out for you in real life is certainly different I'm sure, but as you have explained, you have taught in mostly eastern schools, although you mentioned NC, which I'm unfamiliar with in terms of this kind of topic. You'll have to trust that my observations are not contrived. In 2006 or instance, the Missouri coalition for life was trying to stop a stem cell research bill from passing (certainly their right to speak their minds). However, they were trying to twist the arm of the state by introducing measures to stop all funding to the state campuses that would do this kind of research. Assholes.

Additionally, while you have not known a life without faith, I have known a life a faith. Several in fact. It was a very labored effort to try out and find a fit. I found it wasn't the specific differences that turned me off to individual faiths, it was the common thread they shared. I am not speaking theoretically about faith, preconceived notion, it is not. I've been there, done that. An open mind is not a problem for me. I speak from experience that faith had asked me to stop asking. Not just once either.

I get it though. You haven't stopped questioning. That's good, but this isn't about you. It isn't about me. You aren't under attack. You can't say with a straight face that science is not being undermined by religion in our world. Just because you don't do it, does not mean that others don't. I see no need for you to represent these people, but you do nobody ay favors by denying that this is certainly a practice of faith (even if not yours).

As for gatherings of faith, I was in my college years a member of a round table on religion. It was composed of people of all different faiths. This was at a a science and engineering school too. I saw firsthand how this conflicted with many individuals. Imagine for a moment a mathematician who understands string theory, but wants it to be wrong because of what it might mean to his faith. I knew him. Imagine a student's feelings towards the 2nd law of thermodynamics and what they've been told about it in regards to evolution, then having them learn what the law actually is. I knew him too.

I can understand that many people including you have lived longer aidan. I am unsure as how this becomes ultimately relevant. There are people older than you that share my view, many of whom have helped shape my outlook. If I am to yield to your experience, are you to yield to theirs? Perhaps a discussion on merits is better. As I said, how can a faith no matter how long lasting or meaningful have value if it is factually wrong? You agree with evolution, how do you reconcile your faith's factual inaccuracy? At what point could you no longer reconcile it? Is there a particular story, or a amount of stories that would have to be found factually wrong for you to stop reconciling it?

You gave the example of your brain that produces enough serotonin and dopamine, so you don't need antidepressants. Your friend's brain however doesn't. Good example, for my point. See the meds your friend takes will actually stimulate the brian and force the production of serotonin and/or dopamine. The NEED was the serotonin and dopamine, not the meds. The meds only represent the means. I understand your use of the word "need" here, but in terms of human needs, it's inaccurate. A person who is in a wheelchair needs a ramp, but their NEED like those who can walk is mobility. The ramp only represents the means to achieve their need, like your friend's meds.

Needs are not subjective. Our wants and what we believe to be the best means to meet our needs and wants are subjective though. You think faith is a need for you. I do not believe this can be the case for anyone. Like the meds (unintended drug reference... we keep doing that...), this is your means, but it is not a need.

Aidan, I don't think you're ignorant. Your son's phrasing of fucking tenacious perhaps most appropriate. I don't think you should be taking such offense to what I'm writing here, nor should you be going to such lengths to defend things.

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BTW, congrats on your teaching award. That's pretty cool.
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Reply Mon 11 May, 2009 12:09 pm
Laughing Laughing Thanks - I thought it was cool too - and it was totally unexpected. That's what made it such a nice surprise.

I understand what you're saying. I respect your views- very cogently and clearly stated. You're a good writer.

I too wish that certain people who represent religion in general and Christians, specifically (in this issue of faith vs. science in the schools) were reasonable and rational and perfect.
Unfortunately - they're also human. So that will never be the case, I'm afraid.

And just like everyone else, Christians view situations and issues through their own particular prism. They actively seek facts and interpret stimulus so as to support their particular beliefs or tendencies when deciding theoretical truths.
It's the rare person who can approach most issues with a truly open mind.

I don't think I'm right and anyone else is wrong. I just know what I am.
And I can't change what I am because others who say they are the same as me and have the same beliefs (but really don't) make me be ashamed to be known as what I know I am.
I'd call that cowardly.

I only brought up my time on earth because it references how long I've had to think and observe and ruminate over these things. It doesn't make me superior to anyone or less than anyone -it just references how long I've had to think and observe and learn. That's all.
Maybe Ive observed and learned different things from different people and experiences than other people, older or younger.
But I trust the people I've learned from and observations and experiences I've had and am happy with the conclusions I've come to.

They work for me-that's all I can tell you.
And it does make me feel defensive when something that means something to me is ridiculed. Not merely questioned- ridiculed. And faith is often ridiculed on this forum.
And I think that's unfortunate. I think people should be able to differentiate between intolerant and hate stirring Christians such as Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson or creationists pushing their agenda on school boards and people who simply and quietly practice what they were taught that has brought meaning and direction to their lives.
I don't ask people why they DON'T believe. It make no difference to me whatsoever. Why does it matter to anyone at all that I do?

You don't have to answer that- it was just a hypothetical question. I understand where your ire with Christians and Christianity lies. You can believe me when I say that mine does too.
But it doesn't change the fact that I believe and value what I was taught to believe and value.
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Reply Mon 11 May, 2009 07:42 pm
This is a perfect place to end this conversation.

Thank you for your input.
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