Re: 1st Cousin Sex
I'm with ddjd, though, this could be on the up-and-up or it could be a classic unreliable narrator.
fairview69 wrote:I am a 57yo male who has a 56yo female 1st cousin. i have
fantasized about having sex with her for 35 years. i even fantasize about her while masturbating.
This just talks about his desire for her, not vice versa.
Quote:over the years shes shown me her breasts discretely,
What does that mean? It could be that she had a fairly low-cut shirt on and he saw something when she leaned over to get the salt, or it could be that they did "you show me mine and I'll show you yours" when they were 12 (I've done that with people I have NO interest in having sex with now).
Quote:talked about our sex lives,
That could be a number of things, too. If she considers him a brother type, could be she just talks to him about this stuff, male point of view, etc., doesn't necessarily mean anything.
Quote: etc. when we go out at night for dinner she will dress very sexy.
This is one that I almost always distrust, a lot of women dress fashionably for the fashion and dressing "sexy" as a message is not the intention.
Quote:when coming to my house for a 3 day visit a few months ago she called to tell me where she was at, before she hung up she told me what happened at my place stayed at my place.
This I don't get.
Quote:i was dumbfounded. but i didn't make a move on her during her visit. at night before going to bed with her robe on she would sit on the couch with her legs on the couch rubbing them together as if she knew this was turning me on.
"as if she knew" also is a warning bell. This could easily be a woman staying with family, wearing a robe before bed, and crossing her legs.
Quote: we are planning to get together in the near future for a few days. what i need to know is how do i approach her to find out her feelings without ruining the relationship that we already have.
Maybe start with finding out what on earth she meant by "what happens at your place stays at your place"?
Ohhhh the Shame!!!!
