I'm thinking that a man who would tote that thing around town would be almost infinitely more likely to be laughing than a woman who would tote that thing around town.
Have you told or instructed your boyfriend what you like, how you like it? Ive heard most women cant orgasm through penetration, only stimulation. Is he 'small/average/big', maybe he concentrates on the penetration too much and not on the foreplay?