Lola wrote:Foxfyre wrote:Lola wrote:
Most of our problems are self inflicted. That's not the question. How able we are to do otherwise is the real issue. Most of us need help some of the time. Some much more than others. It's an over simplification, I know but I'm hungry and want to go eat dinner.
Not an over simplification at all. I think none of us are 100% self sufficient nor can any of us say that we never need help. Sometimes we cannot solve our problem unless we are willing to ask for or accept available help. I think, however, that we can sometimes fail to see the harmful consequences in the "help" we offer.
Obviously too much help or the wrong kind or help, the kind that encourages unnecessary dependency has harmful consequences. It's knowing what kind of help and how much that matters. But the use of the word choice indicates a judgement about motivation that cannot be known. It would be better to use another word that better describes what you mean.
No, I think most who move in circles applicable to the word 'choice' in this context would define it as I do.
For me 'choice' is power. It is not accepting that anybody is too inferior or incapable or powerless or disadvantaged to escape their circumstances, conditioning, environment, etc. It is not promoting notiions that it is necessary to accept being a ward of the government or whatever along with whatever restrictions the keeper chooses to impose.
I think the best help is helping people to understand that sociopolitical caste systems in this country are an illusion. I think the best help is to help people see the possibilities out there and what choices are available to them and helping them find the courage and desire to make the best decisions to achieve them. And I think too often government programs intended to help are actually cruel deterrents to people making the choice to empower themselves in positive ways.
I am waiting for a President AND Congress who are willing to understand both the short term and long term consequences of what government does and who choose to do good AND do no harm.
Frankly I don't think either Obama or McCain are stellar examples of leaders with a good handle on that.