whiteviolet wrote:Porn can destroy the appetite for decent sex based on a real relationship. It is a creeping disease. I had my marriage destroyed by porn and now see its effects where I work, in a prison. Not an amusing subject at all and deserves deeper knowledge and reflection.
Pah. Don't get me started.
What caused the destruction of your marriage? The sneaking? The fighting? The lying? Or the watching of porn? Did he not have sex with you anymore because of the porn? Did you talk to him about it or scream at him that he was rotten pig and a terrible husband and you demand better?
I am not trying to trivialize your situation because I know nothing about it but 9 time outta 10, the seperation is not caused by porn but by the people in the marriage who refuse to take responsibility for it and want to blame something else.
What effects do you see in prision? Rape? Pah. Porn didn't cause that. Horney men and power trips cause that. I am curious to know what you meant by that comment.