Any Relativists out there?

I really struggle with Relativism. I have heard that there are some relativists that have good arguments for thier belief structure. I have ignored it up to this point in my life because of Strong Relativisms self referentially incoherent nature (i.e. "Everything is Relative" - is a Universal)

But I can see that weak realtivism could be somewhat valid.

I am looking for a defense of relativism I can see as valid.

Any help?

TTF