a man's backdoor

I knew someone who popped a finger up his own butt for the hell of it. I think you might not have the reach to hit the prostate gland.

You should have picked up gymnastics in high school.

I'm pretty sure that you can find some kind of educational link on this, kix. Maybe Paris Hilton and Aaron Carter did a demo on the backdoor?

Kicky you should go where no man or woman has gone before.

I did have a girl do that to me once. It was uncomfortable and all I could think about was this girl is trying to stick her finger up my butt.
Not looking for a repeat performance.

I had a guy who wanted me to do it to him - I couldn't bring myself to do it.

...not to mention what it can do to the girls manicure.

American men seem (in this sample), hmmmmm, oddly conservative.

i think its supposed to feel scary for the guy at first.... but then once you hit that spot...he goes insane!! i wonder if there are acrobatic guys that do hit that spot right on their own...

Well I've done things to chick's balloon knots.

If you've got talons that make a bald eagle green with envy, just forget about it.

ehbeth.....I was thinking the exact same thing.........

I have totally avoided this area with every man I have ever been with...mostly because they can't deal with it...too homosexual for them...maybe? Maybe they will like it too much...and they are scared...I dunno?

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i think you are absolutely right hotsauce

I think you'd be suprised at how many men like it but won't admit it. At first, I think it's a little intimidating, because it is such a forbidden area. But most guys, once "broken in" enjoy it.

I have to say no woman has ever done that to me. However, I've have had it licked and it feels really good. I've come to realize that a great blowjob includes anal licking. This rises up a question for me: do you a2k gals like to perform ass licking? Have you done it? Let's share your experiences.

To a certain degree yes. If that degree is not sufficient there are a variety of reasonably priced toys to increase that degree.

However as in all such things, unless the other person is particularly bad at it, it is less enjoyable on your own.

... you asked.

Unless you have very long arms, doing it to yourself is a good way to dislocate your shoulder.

I think its the whole idea of being penetrated im not into. Men are supposed to be the penetrators not the penetratees. Now that I've overused that word, it just makes sense because we are equipped that way. Why would men even want to try it? The traditional know how works good enough for us, or at least myself. And I don't feel like something is missing or that I'm incomplete. In fact I can find nothing more naturally satisfying and when I'm at that point I'm indifferent to the fact that something can be better. Because once you reach bliss, what else is there? Right? Call it conservatism, or old-fashioned but the desired effect is all I'm after. If I were gay I would call it the natural way I'm pleasured. But to swing both ways is beyond me. I apologize for my sheltered innocence. I wasn't allowed to read until I was 15.

Kicky - Be careful! I worried about you shaving your dangly bits. Now I have to worry about hearing you ended up in the ER with a dislocated shoulder and a stinky finger!

Having worked in a hospital during my college years, I know all sorts of things get done that indicate American men aren't as innocent as they are presenting here.

(PLEASE do not use a coke bottle. It can break!)