just as well. i was scheduled tonight to be taught scrabble by littlek, but was hit with a flu after a workout in the gym. she's free and up for grabs.
<fanning self with large banana leaf>
Kickycan, have you ever uttered the phrase "And then she walked in, legs up to her neck"?
I just read back a bit..... About the kissing - I haven't had a major smooch session in a along time either. I wonder about the point mentioning the intimacy of kissing. Hmmmmm....
Ah, Kicky, you have seen "Sideways" - did you like it?
As for "the moment" - it is divine - and fun when you make it last, string it out a little - it has usually gone quite well for me - ahem.
Re: The Perfect Moment
kickycan wrote:
Is there anything more embarrassing and awkward than that moment?
I sat down on the grass in the park wearing a kacky pair of shorts. I guess I got a little dirt on the back side mixed with the dew from the grass. Walking around looking like that for the rest of the day might be a little more embarassing than pulling away from a kiss.
Haha, that would be MAllen.
Going back to kissing. I think the most precious kiss
is always the first one in a new relationship. These kisses
are filled with anticipation, butterflies in the stomach
and a tremendous elevated feeling.
<sigh> One should be allowed to kiss freely anyone
that looks kissable....
First kisses are the best when they are good. But when they suck, man what a disappointment.
I love those few seconds leading up to afirst kiss....you are both like, "Should I go in? Should I wait for him/her? What if it sucks? What if it is fabulous? Do I have bad breath? " All those questions, and butterflies and uncertainty. We're all vulnerable for a few seconds and I think that's why first kisses are so great. It's a few seconds when we really just open ourselves up to someone else for the first time.
Very well said Kristie
I honestly cannot remember a lousy kiss. Maybe I just
supressed that memory, but I have had some good kissers.
dlowan wrote:Ah, Kicky, you have seen "Sideways" - did you like it?
I liked it a lot. Not the greatest movie ever, but some very touching, sincere-feeling scenes, like the one that inspired this thread, and some absolutely hilarious ones as well. Plus I think Paul Giamatti plays the sympathetic loser character perfectly, and I love Virginia Madsen. It's definitely worth a watch.
I remember a bad kiss, just last year. Sometimes holding back and making the anticipation build can work against you.
I had been seeing this girl for about two months, and she was always telling me how adorable I was, but I never seemed to get the vibe that she wanted me to kiss her. After two months of nothing, I was really expecting something with some sizzle, you know?
Finally, one night, the moment seemed right. I leaned in and kissed her. No feeling, no passion, not even any tongue!
It was like kissing a mannequin. I was completely underwhelmed.
yes, did you ever see her again after that? maybe she died on the spot of awe.
I actually went out with her for another three months or so. I liked her okay, but I think the main reason I kept hanging out with her was because she kept dangling the promise of sex in front of me. She had very sexy bedroom eyes that kept me hanging in there way too long.
And I never got the sex! What a rip-off!
are you sure she wasnt a mannequin?
I mean, you DO hangout at Victorias Secret alot......................
shewolf is feeling better.....the insults have begun....
Kristie, if we ask "Should I go in? Should I wait for him/her? What if it sucks? What if it is fabulous? Do I have bad breath?" it seems to me that we should wait. The perfect moment should be the "right" moment. At that moment the saying "Ripeness is all" (meaning readiness) applies. There are moments where no questions arise. Confidence is absolute and subtle messages are exchanged that generate and maintain that MUTUAL confidence.
Then what's the fun of a first kiss?
I's like to see who here has been 100% sure about every first kiss. A first kiss can be the only kiss. It might be with someone you've know for 20 minutes and are kissing because...well, just because. A first kiss doesn't have to be romantic or right. It can be about being horny. It can be about a bet. It can be abouth anything.
Why plan and wait for something that just might be great right NOW? Just me though.
