Should i wait?!?

You're making excuses for your ex.

If she wanted to spend time with you, she would make time.

Find someone who will enjoy spending time with you and get on with your life and don't waste it on someone who isn't worth YOUR time.

To answer simply: No, I don't think you should wait. Who knows when she'll finally make the time for you? Or if? Maybe by the time she's ready to be in a relationship again, she'll have moved onto someone else.

To reiterate what Misti said, if she wanted to spend time with you, she'd make time. And I'm sure that you're a nice enough fellow to one day, hopefully soon, find a lady who would love to make time for you.

Krysia, I like that avatar. So friendly-looking and sensible. It makes me want to listen to your advice. Good choice.

I meant to send this via PM, but I haven't proven my PM-worthiness just yet, apparently! But thanks. I tried to make it look like me, but I don't know if it does or not!

Sorry about the spam!

You're welcome. Hope you stick around on A2K.

hate to say it but give up on her, she's too buisy for you now, and you don't want a relationship like that, yah it will hurt and it will be hard, but it will save you from even more heart brake in the future! It will be easier to do it now, it's just goin to get harder the longer you go, sorry and good luck

There are times when you are genuinely too busy for romance. For example during the final month of a university course during which you have to prepare your thesis etc.

Don't judge someone too harshly for these moments. It's only in fairytales and books that people drop their entire lives for someone they love. Sometimes you do have to wait.

Just make sure you get an idea of how long and make sure she is interested and not just lying to "be nice", then make an informed decision.