Ahhh!!! This explains a lot about his posts on the porn thread, lol!
is there no way to supress it? AHHHHHH!!!!!! i hate my balls, i am a religious person, and supposedly i'm supposed to cut them off if they're causing me problems, i don't plan on having biological children, but then again I am 20(regret telling you that =p)
it gets to the point sometimes where i ask myself what's wrong with me? why can't i control it, hating myself over it? (yes i have problems, i'm getting better though)
at least i know that i'm in control, i'll never feel helpless.
Damn! If I hadn't lost touch with my most recent ex, I think I could work a miracle cure here, though not as cheap and painles as what we might call "The Kicky Cure."
Do leave the porn behind, though. I doubt it is helping. The age does have to be a factor, too.
Aaaadrian! He meant 5-6, not 56 <I think>
yes i did intend for it to be 5-6 lol, I will leave the porn then. it's so hard... but as soon as i tell myself it's hard it becomes more difficult, i have to believe it's easy, then it becomes easy. it is easy then, i shall leave porn forever! never again, i shall delete all 22 gigabytes of freshly downloaded pornographic material off my laptop right now.
shaddix wrote:is there no way to supress it? AHHHHHH!!!!!! i hate my balls, i am a religious person, and supposedly i'm supposed to cut them off if they're causing me problems, i don't plan on having biological children, but then again I am 20(regret telling you that =p)
it gets to the point sometimes where i ask myself what's wrong with me? why can't i control it, hating myself over it? (yes i have problems, i'm getting better though)
at least i know that i'm in control, i'll never feel helpless.
let's not let some religious guilt get in your way here man
yes religoius guilt and shame, i am currently having problems with that, i'm waiting for my girlfriend to call me back and explain it properly to me so that is no longer an issue......
shaddix wrote:yes i did intend for it to be 5-6 lol, I will leave the porn then. it's so hard... but as soon as i tell myself it's hard it becomes more difficult, i have to believe it's easy, then it becomes easy. it is easy then, i shall leave porn forever! never again, i shall delete all 22 gigabytes of freshly downloaded pornographic material off my laptop right now.
22? You're just a rookie, my friend.
Seriously, I had about 40 megabytes of porn on my computer. I recently got rid of most of it. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I'm not kidding, either.
ok, and here is where I step out.
I dont do the religious guilt thing. I am personaly against that. ;-)
Soooo.. im shutting my trap.
Good luck to ya.
<phew> Thanks Roger, I was just about to contact Guinness....
Shaddix, toning down the porn consumption is probably a good thing in general but really 5 or 6 times a day for a 20 year old is nothing to be overly worried about. As long as you aren't hurting yourself by doing so of course.
make 2 lists:
1. positive things of masterbating
1. negative things of masterbating
Kicky, read it again.
GIGA not MEGA.
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Oh, ****, I always make that mistake. I meant giga too.
So, you got a solution re. the "religious guilt thing"?
Does the meat tenderiser work for that too?
Okay, I'm going to help you out, Shaddix, cuz I like you.
Here's how I got rid of all my porn. I went through every single movie I had, slowly, ceremoniously, spending about two hours a night on them. Then I would place the watched files in a folder called "To be trashed". After my "ceremony", I would throw away that folder. It took me a couple months, and it was actually quite exhausting. I almost didn't even want to masturbate half the time, but I forced myself to do it, because I had a goal, dammit! That's a good way to lower your libido, by the way. Masturbate when you don't even feel like it, and you'll get sick of it after awhile, trust me.
Of course, there were a few movies that I couldn't bare to part with, like the one with the midget baby.
Hope that helps.
there is no guilt/shame in a relationship with God(i don't want to say religion), it is interpreteded wrongly by alot of people, and that's what i'm waiting for my girlfriend to explain
ok here is my list
pros of masturbation
.releases natural opiates into the brain
.decreases activity in the deep limbic system leading to a natural positive outlook on things
.feels good
.doesn't take long
.if you do often enough there's little/no cleanup
.you can do it alone
.healthy for your body
cons of masturbation
.fear of not fitting in with society(if i do it too much)
.fear of not being accepted by my girlfriend(neurosis, because she'll always accept me)
.sticky keyboards
.addiction
well, looking at the list it seems that i have no reasonn to stop masturbating, at least no REAL reason, seeing as how society doesn't eeven know how much i masturbate, and the girlfriend thing i'm lying to myself about, the only cons are the sticky keyboards and the addiction thing
so the tables are in favor of masturbation, however i must look into the addiction thing, and i will stay away from porn. I will do this for the betterment and personal growth of myself, that is my motivation. because i love myself, and i love my girlfriend.
thank you for the help
if i can't do it cold turkey i'll try what you said kicky, thanks for the input, i have quite a bit more faith in your method however
Well, I wish you luck, Shaddix.
kickycan wrote:shaddix wrote:yes i did intend for it to be 5-6 lol, I will leave the porn then. it's so hard... but as soon as i tell myself it's hard it becomes more difficult, i have to believe it's easy, then it becomes easy. it is easy then, i shall leave porn forever! never again, i shall delete all 22 gigabytes of freshly downloaded pornographic material off my laptop right now.
22? You're just a rookie, my friend.
Seriously, I had about 40 megabytes of porn on my computer. I recently got rid of most of it. It was one of the hardest things I've ever had to do. I'm not kidding, either.
Question for the two of you. Which is your favorite porn actress and why, plus, what's the movie you'd say a porn fan can't miss?
kickycan wrote:shaddix wrote:i will stay away from porn.
How much you wanna bet?
Interesting wager. Kind of the one in the "master of your domain" chapter of Seinfeld... I would't wager a penny
