Wow Frank - I think we are star crossed brother!
I feel the other way completely. It seems this way to me. A gun is a great tool to persuade a person to give me power over them - but if I refuse and they shoot me - they can extinguish my power - but they cannot take it.
Meaning this - unless you are some sort of Highlander Character you cannot 'take' my life. Once you shoot me you have no extra power - or more power than you had before you shot me - you just extinguished my power.
I think it appears that you are taking my power with the gun - but I think you are persuading me to give it to you - and if I do not - you have nothing.
I love the reponses. It helps me so much to think about. I am not settled on this by any means.
TTF