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Is it normal or a concern that my partner regularly showers naked with his 6 yo daughter?

 
 
Tue 17 Jan, 2017 03:56 am
Recently I found out by walking into the bathroom that my partner showers naked with his 6 year old daughter. He thinks this is normal and I was wondering if this is maybe just me? Or is this a concern? Also wondering when the right age for father/daughter showers should stop?
 
Olivier5
 
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Tue 17 Jan, 2017 05:15 am
@Girlwithaquestion,
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when the right age for father/daughter showers should stop?

Puberty.
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PUNKEY
 
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Tue 17 Jan, 2017 06:59 am
I'd say it's time to break up that scene.

Dad can say, "Now you are becoming a young lady and it's time for you to have your privacy."

Is he raising her? What does the ex say about this?
oralloy
 
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Tue 17 Jan, 2017 10:16 am

Not normal, but based on your description I think it is probably innocent. You should definitely put a stop to it though.
Girlwithaquestion
 
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Tue 17 Jan, 2017 02:02 pm
@PUNKEY,
I'm not sure what the mother's perspective is. They share 50/50 custody.

Thank you for the advice!
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Olivier5
 
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Wed 18 Jan, 2017 08:46 am
@oralloy,
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You should definitely put a stop to it though.

It's none of her business.
ossobucotemp
 
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Wed 18 Jan, 2017 07:57 pm
@Olivier5,
I think it is normal, pre puberty. I could go on about this, but won't.
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Girlwithaquestion
 
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Sat 21 Jan, 2017 03:30 am
@Olivier5,
In my house. It is my business. The fact you would shower naked with a 12 year old girl is something I think you need to check in with. You sound like a predator.
Olivier5
 
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Sat 21 Jan, 2017 04:17 am
@Girlwithaquestion,
12 years is way too late. i stopped bathing with my daughter when she was 9 or so.

Fine, if it's in your house you have some ground to complain. But don't see evil where there's none. You sound like a judgemental freak to me.
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Voice asMusic
 
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Sat 21 Jan, 2017 07:50 am
My niece's father used to take baths with her when she was five. He molested her.

Now, she is a 25 year old drug addict with all sorts of mental problems.

She is on disability.

My answer is, never. Sick, sick, sick, imo.
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