Why do some men fib...

It does not matter.

Leave, don't look back, and block him on all forms of social media. He is utterly untrustworthy.

Sing along with this song if you ever feel yourself wavering (this is also an excuse for me to post Morgan James, who is great):

Why do some women fib?

Because men ask questions?

You're right.
Women never ask questions though, so....

The hell they don't!

I am suspecting it was lie about your love life?
See you are looking for an advice, typing wall of text and keeping
to yourself important facts like was it a lie that he was going to a
library but went to a museum
Or
Was it a lie that he went to a museum but ends up in Hotel room
with a woman?
It is kind of important to know.

This. You need to stop this as it will interfere in your life.

And, you know that whom ever is in your life, is who he/she is. There is no right or wrong, blame or anything. It's their nature, it's who they are, it's their core person.

Simply put. You don't like it. You feel disrespected. So why stay.

I'll second Found Soul, but I'll add a few things:

- if who he is, results in you not liking who you become around him, and the dislike of yourself is becoming worse & worse...run. Staying is a long slippery slide down into an abyss of self loathing.

- If he is unwilling to change, and the second part of the above holds true...run. For the same reasons

- if you find your behaviour worsening, with no end in sight. Run.

- if you recall how you felt about yourself before you met him, and track how you feel about yourself over the time you've been with him...and it's a slow slide downhill, with no end in sight - Run.

- I think you get the picture.

Wherever possible (if you're looking for a long term relationship), find someone who enhances your self esteem.

A lot of people are just natural born liars, they usually become politicians.

You've got that right! One other thing, however, they usually become President of the US!!

Are you interrogating him about his business?

Are you trying to micro-manage his life?

Why would you be concerned about what a man eats?

What would have happened if he had said that - yes - he ate 5 donuts?

I would flip over 5 donuts!
I need him healthy! And yes I tell him it's time
to go for annual checkup. And I can tell he is
loving it!
Feels like someone cares!

If you're already dating him seriously, then it's his personality. Like you, I lie sometimes. Little fibs, never anything that's seriously effecting someone's people. Men and women who lie often about large things, are dangerous people. As you pointed out, you never know what to really believe.
People like this are horrible, horrible people that don't care about anyone but themselves.

there are a lot of reasons. and thats a lie

And we still don't know what OP was talking about.
I love these posters!

Everyone fibs...some to a larger degree than another

Hello Everyone and thank you for your answers! Sorry it took so long for me to reply. I didn't want to use my personal email address so I created a new one and I forgot the name.....goodness me!

There has been a couple replies on what the lie was. Here's a couple of them. My guy doesn't have a car right now and uses his ex-wife's car now and then. I don't give a hoot that it's her car and he's using it but he can not admit that it's her car. He says it's his guy friends car, then once he says it his guy friends girls car. I laugh and say it's your ex's car why is it so hard to admit. He has a couple pics of her next to this car. My gym that I go to daily is about 3 blocks from where she works and I see this car there all the time. This car is yellow with a design designed onto it. Like I said in my previous post it drives me crazy that he lies and all I want to do is prove to him he's lying. I'm really embarrassed for myself that my only objective now is for him to just admit he's lying. So I bring it up all often. WTF have I become? A couple weeks ago he used it for a week and again kept telling me I'm crazy so this time I proved him right. I went into the glove box and saw the papers that indeed shows it's her car and registered to her. He doesn't know this.
This is actually the point where I just realized I'm not me anymore. I'm not a better person because of him. All these innocent lies don't make me feel safe. Now I see us as the story "the boy who cried wolf".
When we fight he leaves and sometimes stays somewhere else for the night. He claims he sleeps in the car yet comes home fresh and clean (sometime he's at his buddies house). This has caused me to look at his phone and what do I see...him and his ex-wife saying yes come over. Yet he said he wrote this just to piss me off because he knows I will look at his phone and that he never went over there. OMFG come on.

Life has been really hard for him this past year, financially and everything. He's hit rock bottom. I love him and believe this just a bump in the road. I wonder if the lies are because of the situation or if he's just like this. But it seems from the replies that this is a personal trait and can't be changed or can it? For me I don't feel safe or comfortable or secure in this relationship and it has caused me to act in a manner that I shouldn't.

Thank you Found Soul. I keep reading your reply over and over and letting it sink in.

Let it sink in. We have intuition and we are fortunate if only we were to listen to it huh?

It's possible that he had a tormented relationship with his ex, was lying all the time, had an affair, she felt un-comfortable, not safe, secure And left him. But, you know, better the Devil you know. Lends her his car, let's him sleep over.

What is not yours? Doesn't deserve YOU.

Straighten that skirt up, or down kinda, take a look in the mirror and remind yourself of your self worth. Then get yourself a guy that loves you, you back that you do feel safe with, secure with and comfortable with.