Is it count as love?

No, you're not. You want him to be your boyfriend. That's what crushes want. Please own up to this.


Then he's possessive. This is not a good thing for him to be with people who are not dating him.


Imagine how his girlfriend feels when he does that.

He's manipulative.

See above. You may be a very generous, big-hearted person, but pretty much the definition of having a crush on someone is because you want to be with them. Please admit that to yourself.


Which he ignores.

He's a jerk.

And he doesn't care about that. Maybe think about that.

I would run in the opposite direction, fast.

Your English is fine.

This stuff can be confusing. It does not help when someone is trying to have his cake and eat it, too (please look up that expression if it's unclear). He wants to have a girlfriend and to string you along because he enjoys the attention you give him. He probably enjoys similar attentions from other girls he is not dating. This feeds his ego and makes him feel he is more important than he truly is. You are helping him along by giving him attention even as he hurts your feelings.

So stop doing that.

I feel for you and your situation. But there is something you need to think seriously about. You have to ask yourself this question: If he was your boyfriend, would you want him to be loyal to you? That is, love you in a way that clearly displayes he has eyes for no one else but you, just as you have for him? Since he already has a girlfriend, why should he become upset if you don't return his attentions or if you show interest in or speak to another boy. Even now he is showing himself to be disloyal to his current girlfriend. Might he behave the same way with you?

To help, you might consider this Bible principle at 2 Samuel 22:26 which says in part: "With someone loyal you act in loyalty"

Keep this in mind and it will help take the right action regarding this.

Ill second anthony. Don't mess with this guy, drop your infatuation. He is not available. Do you really want to get in the middle of him and her, and have him come to you? What will that say about him? Do you want a loyal guy you can trust? Lets say hypothetically he broke off with her cause of you... he would be making that decision while he is with her. He is already sort of emotionally cheating on her. Like letting his eyes wonder while in a realtionship with a girl. Is that the kind of guy you want? You think it will be different with you?

I have a crush and he already my boyfriend

i have a crush also but my crush girlfriend is my friend so that i accept that were not for each other . it so but im happy because i know my friend will become happy,,