@Jake Ryan,
Shrug.
I'm not sure what you're looking for help with.
He wrote down what he allegedly wants. He may find it, or not.
More likely, he will go into the dating scene, realize that he's being ridiculous about some of this stuff, and will learn how to prioritize it. Some bits will become more important than others. If he's smart, he'll learn how to compromise on such things and will instead seek out whatever is vitally important to him.
If he is smarter, he will do some of those things without waiting for someone else to do them (e. g. a weekly date night? He can't be bothered to arrange such things himself if he wants them? That's a part of what being an adult in an adult relationship is all about - you take the bull by the horns if you really want something, and you give to the other person).