Argument with my guy.

We were having a quiet evening one night when I noticed that the one of my computer Mac cords I always leave in the living room was missing. I recalled him using it at one point so I asked him where it was. He became very angry for accusing him of losing it and also gave me several kicks in the rear end. He felt I ruined a beautiful evening together by caring more about a computer cord than about him.

My guy has a tendency to lose things and/or misplace some of my things. I had asked him earlier today if he saw my sunglasses that I leave in the car. I know he sometimes wears mine when he cant find his. Perhaps the sunglasses and this last accusation about a computer cord got to him.

My guy has been accusing me of wanting to ruin a great relationship by being negative… being too pessimistic. I feel sorry for it as I have no intention of wanting to destroy our relationship. I know I can be a pessimist but I get even more anxious about being in this relationship when he keeps saying things like I have break-up issues and he cant tolerate my negativity and will one day have to leave the relationship if I dont change.

He went away today in my car to drive his daughter around. I suppose I wouldn't have minded so much but his daughter just does not like me too much. Sometimes my guy has not had the money to fill the car tank with gas and I find out all too late as I have to rush off to a business meeting with barely any gas in my car.

My guy is a very intelligent well read man and for the most part patient and gentle. I know his business will take off one day. However, I often feel anxious and resentful as he has a tendency to spend money he doesn't have right now and as a consequence I carry to burden of paying for most of the expenses and having to explain to my parents why he lives with me rent free.

I believe my guy will be financially successful one day. He even gives me great advice about my business and helps me out in many ways. He feels I’m really talented in what I do and so he knows how to market me to the right businesses….Only thing is.. I dont want to be a career woman. We were talking about having a baby. I’m just having difficulty getting pregnant.

When I get bitter and anxious about his finances, it’s probably very difficult for him to bare.