@chai2,
Hell, Auschwitz has a web site for tourists. Ive never been there but I hope its done with deep respect an as a lesson based on Santayana's
"If we dont remember history, we are doomed to repeat it"... quote
In the US, our problem is that, we seem to forget the solemnity that should be attending our own sites. Like Gettysburg and Antietam, they came damn close to building a fuckin CASINO and a huge "space needle" (Until the park Service finally grew a set and said NO)
I must say that, in the USA, you Texans preserve the solemnity and demand respect from all visitors to the Alamo. I find that good.
I was down there once and the docent was giving some nicely worded "Will you shut that fuckin kid up"!!
The Alamo could give lessons on respect for some of our sites.
AS far as Dahmer, yeh, his victims families should be respected.