How can I justify my boyfriend having sex with me before marriage ?

If he doesn't want to, then he doesn't want to.

He has evidently decided that not sinning is better for his relationship with God. My question would be, if you love him, why would you not want to support him in his decision? After all, isn't that what loving couples do, support each other?

If your desire for sex is more important than loving the person he is, which includes his desire to stop having premarital sex, then you can always end the relationship and find someone new to have sex with you.

If he hasn't explained it to you, ask him to.

Communication is the key.

Going to church camp would mess you up for awhile I would think. Sounds dreadful.

Give him some time, he'll come to his senses.

" he has already committed the sin"

Is THAT what you think happened? Is that what you think sexual activity is before marriage?

If he feels he has sinned, then - after going to church camp-, he doesn't want to "sin" any more.

May I ask your ages?

That suits my own philosophy perfectly.

You ever see those signs or advertisements for "Vacation Bible School"?

Those are 3 words that make no sense when said together.

I can't even imagine what goes on there.

Holy crap.

This is so much worse!

Drop and give me 30 plasms maggot!

Striclty speaking, if you've had sex you're already married as far as Judaism or Christianity are concerned. Theologically, marriage is established in any combination of 3 ways: giving of a token low-value coin symbolizing the providing for one another (has gone from coin to ring in modern times,) formal contract creation and signing, and sex. Any 1 will do, or combination of all of them.

Downside of this interpretation is only if you breakup and have sex with someone else it's now adultery unless you followed theological procedure for a divorce or 'get' if Jewish. If Christian you're out of luck as according to Jesus you can't divorce.

So if you've been having sex, you're defacto married already.

You will sow the seeds of future hate if you do that. When you try to bypass the inner decisions of people and blame it on love, at some point that person realizes : I am not important in myself to this person.

Some interesting information on "common law marriage."
http://family.findlaw.com/marriage/common-law-marriage.html

Your thinking is fully satisfied if you both having sex many times before then there will be no problem to do it again as your marriage is fixed , i hope there will be no issue about that.