Can i get my ex back ?? :( plz help

Maybe you're too clingy and needy? Maybe you were smothering her? not allowing her any personal time or space or other friends or other interests? She said she was frustrated ... give her space! She doesn't want you pestering and begging--that's a complete turn off and will drive her further away. Find other things to occupy your time and attention.

She is not interested. Back off, far off. Don't go bothering her.

No you can not get her back. It's over. She isn't coming back.

The sooner you accept this, the sooner your life will get better. As long as you hold on to this hope, you won't be able to heal and your life will continue to be "hell". Forget about her. Take some time to lick your wounds (it does hurt). After you are over her, you can go out and find someone who will love you back.

Then go out and live life.

Let's understand what you said and what you did: you told her to go away.

She's gone and you sent her away. You can't take it back. Take some time and turn the page and get your head together. Heal yourself and move on.

She may just need her space for a while. She may realize what she had with you and come back when she is ready. Other than that, it may be best for you to support her in her decision. I know it may be tough, but this will prove to her that you are fully committed to her no matter the circumstances.

No This is not true , i'm not clingy i had giver her full space , we used to talk only for 2 hours a day n sometimes more than that n some times less than that ...N u said u think that i was needy , yes i need her but not all d time atleast in a day so i can ask her how was her day ? what she did all day ?? a little care from her ..like she miss me something like that ...i had given her proper space....and one ting more she never shared her feelings to me...she is kinda conservative , sometimes she said i love u ...sometimes she felt awkward when i said i love u...how she was behaving it only making me feel that she don't know what she wants in her life .. she is unsure ...but in starting she told me that i am perfect for her ...

We know each other from 3 years & when she was unsure of that why she did this -_- n m not bothering her anymore i didn't msgd her from last 12 days ....she still have my number , she neither blocked me anywhere ...i can see her online on whatsapp maybe she can too...

u know after a breakup i didn't messaged her for 10 days then she started playing games with me by keep blocking me and unblocking me ...but accidently i sent her a message coz i thought i was blocked but that time i was not...so we had some conversation too & she is doing job in another city ...

i'm understanding everything but loosing someone is how easy now a days , she will be okay she will be fine but what about me ?? she didn't think about that....i'm accepting the fact that we have different ways even respecting her verdict but how can i move on when i love her that much ...i m not need nor desperate i can live without her for years but i can wait for her too...i can be anything what she want ...maybe she is not gonna get who loves her more than a word love....

till then what should i do ?? i also posts some sad quotes will it would be bad if she see that ?? i also make some sad profile pics ?? can it make situation worse ?? i really need some suggestions plz help...how to behave after a breakup , like i don't care about anything ?? or should i behave like i love her n care for her...??

Sad pictures? Seriously?

If I were your ex, I would find that creepy, overly clingy, and annoying.

Which seems to be why she broke up with you.

Here's an idea - try giving up on getting her back because it's not going to happen, and do something productive with your time.

dude have u read everything even my earlier replies ?? maybe u didn't get me thats why u found that creepy , over clingy and annoying . But that is not the truth , i given her proper space but the thing is maybe i should behave like u want a breakup ?? yeah why not i don't have any problem ...if this gonna make her stay ... i just begged her n told her how much i love her but that was loosing self respect...bt now im a master of my emotions i have learned a lot...

Actually, I really did read your replies. You're trying to figure out how to, essentially, do a little play acting (acting sad, etc.) to try to get her back.

She is not coming back, no matter how sad you act.

Jespah is no dude, dude. She is a pink rabbit.

Plus, I agree with her, while being a female human.

So u r telling me she found me creepy n clingy thats why she left ??

Yes!

Next time, try not to be so clingy. It's too much! You can care for someone, and they can even be the focus of your life, without you losing yourself in the process or being so into them that they find your attentions to be smothering.

i'm being egoistic idk i want to msg her bt i won't able to msg her by loosing my self respect ...do u think its a good idea to wait for her text ?? n if she didn't i will not too ?? i'm bit confused ?? n she didn't blocked me anywhere , we r not friends on facebook , we neither following each other on instagram , bt she have still my number , she didn't deleted it n i can see her online too...even her display picture and her status .

& also very thankful to u for giving some advices...