i dont know how to win a girl

The first Text I wrote was something I found out on a blog on how to text a girl

Then it was a stupid blog.

Girls are not a one-size-fits-all alien species.

How about next time just saying, "Hi."

Nothing else. She says hi back (or not). If she does, make small talk. As in, how was your day or whatever. You know, like a conversation, and not a bunch of junk allegedly calculated to win a girl.

Your first text looks weird. I would personally find you creepy based on that first text.

Oh and maybe try to see her in person. Texting is cheap. In person requires effort and has more meaning.

Really! Now I do realize how stupid was that of me.
Thanks!

Oh good grief. You've never met her and the only contact you have had with her is a couple of texts. Right now she is probably thinking there is a 50-50 chance that you are some pervert yet you are claiming to like her? You have no idea whether you like her or not. What you are feeling is called lust. So dial it back a notch.

If you want to get to know her and see what develops, great. But you have to overcome her caution at dealing with someone she has never met or seen who has popped out of nowhere online to tell her how cute she is and how in love he is with her. (See how creepy that sounds?) So for starters, why not give her your number and ask her to call if she wants to chat. IF she calls, have a great chat to get to know each other and them maybe ask if she would like to meet for coffee, lunch, or whatever (in a public place so she would be comfortable meeting a stranger, which is what you are right now.) Then go from there.

If she does not call, then drop it. She is not interested. Don't creep her out by constantly texting her because that could lead to legal trouble for you. Just because she friended you on FB does not mean she is interested. Some people are dumb enough to ok any friend request whether they know the person or not simply to have more friends. I think that is stupid and dangerous, but to each their own. Good luck. But I would not hold my breath. (If it were my daughter telling me about this guy who started texting her out of the blue, I would advise her to cut off contact and stay well clear of him. But hey, who knows.)

Oh man! Its not how u're thinking.
I mean we've bumped into each other a lot of times.
N she wud've seen it coming but not like this n I was too shy to talk in person.

Well then, you need to do a better job of describing the situation. Your first sentence was that you saw this girl 3 days ago. Then you claim you wrote her that you fell for her at first sight. That does not square with your current statement You could not have fallen for her at first sight if you had repeatedly bumped into her in the past.

So which is it? You are confusing me. (But my advice still stands. Give her your number and ask her to call. If she does, ask her to meet up someplace public.)

One other thing.

If you are too shy to talk to women, you will have a difficult time not only establishing a relationship with a woman, but also in maintaining one. lol

Good luck.

Just continue with the girl for the long time friendship....

These are the some ways

1. Be pursuant
Pursue her without the pressure. In other words, don’t try to “front” and be cocky. Have a conversation first and show her you are interested beyond her appearance. You don’t have to come up with some crazy pickup line. You can simply say, “I want to introduce myself…”Be sincere and genuine in wanting to get to know her. I see too many good guys get intimidated by a girl’s beauty up front, but take a closer look, and find her true self. Honestly, if you can get past this, you’ll have a leg up on the other idiots out there. After all, being genuine is where you excel the most. This is why you are the good guy!!

2. Be a gentleman
Girls don’t want to be treated like a queen, but they do want to be treated like a princess. She doesn’t want you to be a doormat, she wants you to be the one in charge. Open every door for her, especially the car door. Pull out her chair and allow her to sit down first when you take her on a date, and let her order first. When you are walking alongside the street, you should be the one walking closest to the street. Being a gentleman is being selfless.

3. Be complimentary
On our first date, I told her “You look so beautiful.” I then told her how great she looked when I saw her without makeup the night before. It was real and sincere. While she later revealed to me that she had been testing me to see if I would still like her without makeup, I simply saw a girl who didn’t have enough time because she just got done at the gym. That was incredibly sexy to me.

4. Be creative
You don’t have to blow your bank account to impress her. Think outside the box. I’ve been watching one of my good buds Danny pursue his girl right. He took her on a hike in Malibu, CA to waterfalls and then took her to this place called M Café complete with swans. He’s also taken her to the Getty museum and the zoo, which are free. Another idea is to take her to a place like Color Me Mine, where you paint your own pottery. Putting thought and originality into a date lets her know you really care about showing her the best in life and it allows you to experience each other across various situations.

5. Be intentional
Invite her to parties, events, and game nights with your friends. I called Kristen every day when I finally got her number. I sent her encouraging text messages and inspirational Bible verses. I told her I wanted to be her man on our fifth date. She wasn’t ready, but she knew what I wanted. I gave her the time she needed with no stipulations, while still pursuing her intentionally. She told me she loved that.

6. Speak well of her in front of other people
Hold her hand. Pick-up artists recommend saying backhanded compliments, but nothing beats a genuine and sincere compliment. A backhanded compliment might work for a one-night stand, but come on, this is a poisonous ingredient in trying to form a long-term relationship. Treat her just as kindly in front of friends and family as you do when you are alone.

7. Be attentive
Show her that you care for her and her needs. Pay attention to the small details. Girls care about the small stuff, big time. For instance, on our first date, I knew Kristen was a vegetarian, so I took her to a vegetarian restaurant called Café Gratitude. Listen to what she has to say.

8. Be protective
Don’t let her walk alone to her car. If she’s going on a jog or walk at night, tell her you want to go to keep her safe. If she’s going to the gas station at night, go with her. If you’re at a club and she needs to go to the restroom, take her there and wait outside the door.

9. Be a good listener
Ask solid open-ended questions that include “what,” “how,” and “why.” If you’re doing most of the talking, you’re not getting very far with her. Show her you care with body language and by repeating back some of what she just told you.

10. Be romantic
Plan ahead. What do you want your love story to be? You are the writer. When people ask where your first kiss was, you don’t want her to answer with the driveway or that you were drunk at a party. The night I kissed Kristen for the first time, I wanted it to be special. I took her to an overlook on Mulholland Drive. We stood on top of the city, and that night I was her very own Superman. It was a special moment and I ended up proposing to her there.

Finally, be yourself. There won’t be much longevity if she’s fallen for a false persona, and why would you want that anyway? I’ve come to terms with the fact that I’m not the coolest guy out there, so I have fun in my dorkiness. There is no one else like you, so be confident. When you are walking in truth, game isn’t necessary. You’ve already won.

Are you one of the many guys out there who are wondering what they can do to win a girl’s heart over? Whether it is the girl that you met in class the other day or a girl that you met at a bar last weekend, learning how to win a girl’s heart might seem daunting to you. However, it really doesn’t need to be, most of all since there are so many new psychological insights on this subject nowadays. In fact, as you read the tips on how to win a girl’s heart in this article, you will soon realize that doing so is actually pretty easy once you set your mind to it.