how to apologise to a teacher

How long ago is this?

Also, ditch the SMS. Use paper and a pen, stamps and all of that and write her a letter in care of the school. She will be a lot more touched by that kind of effort than by a quickie apology you toss off using SMS.

It has been 4 years and i dont remember her address plus i dont want to send a letter in school address.

Why not?

All you have to do is write "Personal" on the lower left of the envelope, and no one will open it.

Please tell me what should be the content of my letter. I mean what should i exactly write ?

How about...

nothing. it was too long ago.

Also what does the following mean:

Can't say that I agree ragman.

It was apparantly do the OP a lot of good, giving her closure.

As for the person getting the letter, it certainly won't hurt her.

If the teacher was hurt, she now has an apology, if she wasn't hurt, doesn't even remember the situation, or see the situation in a negative way, she now has the pleasure of knowing someone thought enough of her to make up for something.

If I got a letter like that, I would think "There's still people around who think of the feelings of others"

you mean write it in my own words? right?

i know but its never too late to apologise

I mean what you already said to us here is a very good apology, if you just address it to her, and not us.

Seems to me you already have it all written out.

thanks a lot