Why is it ok to do?

This is the reason I only date women named 'Katy'.

Problem solved.

Yeah, if your Kathy called you not your name - here goes your 'problem solved'

It's Katy.

And if she is in bed with me, she can call me whatever she likes.

That's a guy! I wish people here learned from you;)

hah because it is ok to do

What?

I get it. I think it would bother me in the sense, that during sex I feel sexy, and attractive. So for my husband to yell out a name other than mine, would make me feel so not sexy..😞...however, I don't care who he thinks about as long as I don't hear about it...

Does it translate into whatever he does is ok as long as I don't know about it?