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Would you date a bisexual person?

 
 
Fil Albuquerque
 
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Sat 12 Mar, 2016 06:19 am
@momoends,
Let me guess if it makes no sense next time you will post about being in love with a pineapple...
Count of Banterbury
 
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Sat 12 Mar, 2016 08:53 am
@HesDeltanCaptain,
"Identifying as bisexual shows a level of sexual maturity very few possess. MOST people are some degree of bisexual. If you call yourself straight but then say things like: I like some gay porn, have some gay fantasies, gave a guy a blowjob once, etc. newsflash but you're not straight. Smile You're more accurately labelled as bisexual.

Very few people, perhaps less than 5% are entirely heterosexual or homosexual. It's freakishly unnatural. It's much more normal to be some degree of bisexual. If you watch porn with women AND men, you're not as straight as you might think you are."

Very interesting... and true indeed. Personally, I knew a few men who I did like and founds somewhat... handsome. But when we got a bit intimate (like talking over a dinner and suddenly I smelled his cologne) I can use only one word for my momentary feeling: disgust. Ever since I stopped thinking of him in this way.

Hard to say... Love is more than physical attraction, but is it very hard to overcome it. Or maybe as person I am quoting said, it is fear speaking from me. Fear of something that I considered taboo for a long time.

I think sexuality is also a choice to some degree. As it seems. therefore most of people might be able to feel sexual desire for same sex, but they do not simply for choosing so. I would say this is my current state, but anything can change anytime. Maybe given right circumstances... who knows.
Lilkanyon
 
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Sat 12 Mar, 2016 06:18 pm
@Count of Banterbury,
Very valid point! Spartans for example, or the Greeks or Romans. They saw beauty in all physical form. They had no words for "homosexual". I believe the church destroyed such concepts by labelling them as "sinful and depraved" behavior. No doubt the letters of Paul who had serious issues with his own sexuality. I see no issue in reversing the bigotry of the past.
Heres something gayphobics could bite on though, that you said. We all have it, it just takes acceptance to bring it out. That scares the **** outta people. True or not, maybe not a good idea to give ammo to an anti gay movement. I dont believe its destruction of society, but homophobes could use your words against you.
Fil Albuquerque
 
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Sat 12 Mar, 2016 08:19 pm
@Lilkanyon,
No I most assuredly don't have it. A masculine body repulses me to the guts n back. Wishful thinking does not make facts. And don't call me homophobic. Enough !
Lilkanyon
 
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Sat 12 Mar, 2016 08:30 pm
@Fil Albuquerque,
Fil Albuquerque wrote:

No I most assuredly don't have it. A masculine body repulses me to the guts n back. Wishful thinking does not make facts. And don't call me homophobic. Enough !


Ahh, there it is! There is nothing wrong with appreciating a beautiful body. I dont have a gay bone either but Angelina Joli is stunning! I am female. Just cuz I think shes beautiful, it does not make me gay. I have no desire to "touch" her. But I can see beauty for what it is. And any man that says he doesnt see a beautifully sculpted male body as beautiful, is lying to himself. That doesnt make you gay, just appreciative of the human body.
Look, I think a strong horse running is a beautiful body, it doesnt mean I wanna screw it. A lion body or a tiger...I just appreciate beauty.
ehBeth
 
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Sat 12 Mar, 2016 08:45 pm
@Lilkanyon,
Well said.

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TomTomBinks
 
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Sat 12 Mar, 2016 10:37 pm
@Vernon of Prague,
You betcha!
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Lilkanyon
 
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Sun 13 Mar, 2016 08:48 pm
@annejie,
I see a sexual discrimmination issue, dont you? Of course men have no issue in dating bi women...a 3 some is every mans dream. Where the real issues lie is bi men. Again, its men making the rules about what is acceptable.
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momoends
 
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Sun 27 Mar, 2016 12:44 am
@Fil Albuquerque,
if your consider being in love with a person whatever the gender similar to being in love with a pineapple .... the one with a serious problem here.. it´s you
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Unka Oogie
 
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Thu 21 Jul, 2016 12:29 pm
@annejie,
It's simple: Men are far more willing to tolerate bisexuality in women than women are willing to tolerate bisexuality in men.
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Ranka
 
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Sun 24 Jul, 2016 09:24 am
@annejie,
I know this sounds weird, but I (female) wouldn't want to date a bisexual man, even though I wouldn't mind dating a bisexual girl. (Yes, obviously, I am bisexual myself.)
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jjfree38
 
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Fri 26 Aug, 2016 05:10 pm
@annejie,
Well...I've been approached by several bisexual men...but the problem I have with them is that they feel its cool for them to be with women but they want you to be with them exclusively and not date any other guys which I have a huge issue with. I just feel if its okay for you to be bisexual then you can't expect me to be devoted to you and only you. That's insane to me.
momoends
 
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Sat 27 Aug, 2016 08:26 pm
@jjfree38,
that´s because they want an open relationship or they are not a faithful person... it has nothing to do with being bisexual
jjfree38
 
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Tue 30 Aug, 2016 05:37 pm
@momoends,
Well...maybe I've been wrong all of these years but I always thought that when an individual is attracted to both sexes whether in a relationship or not...the fact that they can be sexually attracted to both sexes confirms that they are considered bisexual.
momoends
 
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Sun 4 Sep, 2016 01:25 am
@jjfree38,
of course... its exactly that... as an heterosexual man can be attracted to several women at the same time whether they are in a relationship or not... does that mean they all have an open relationship or they are all unfaithful partners?
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