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Wed 29 Oct, 2014 11:05 pm
a girl coworker told me she had a crush on me. I then asked her if she would indulge my foot fetish and she said probably not because she hates her feet. how do I talk her into it? by the way she is also married.
@footlover,
You don't. She told you 'no' once. Don't make her say it again.
@footlover,
There's 3.5 billion other women. start walking.
She's married and told you she has a crush on you.
Her response to your request was, "probably not!"
Hummm.
Lots to think about here.
Unless there is a clear "YES"...it is a no. Always treat anything but a clear YES as a no!
But a "probably not" sound like the kind of thing that more likely will become a clear YES at some point...rather than a definite NO.
You ought really to move on single women rather than married, but if you are an idiot and want to fool around with a married woman...just be cool for a bit...and my guess is that she will bring the foot thing back up on her own.
And when she does...it will mean that she is moving toward a clear YES.
When it becomes a clear YES...have some fun.
@Frank Apisa,
In this case "Yes means No!".
1. Married.
2. Co-worker
3. Fetish.
For God's sake "No"! There is nothing good that can possibly come from this.
@Frank Apisa,
I generally put my own foot in my mouth.
@maxdancona,
Just don't put your foot in MY mouth.
I got a feeling he's going to get a foot up his #ss by this woman's husband.
@PUNKEY,
PUNKEY wrote:
I got a feeling he's going to get a foot up his #ss by this woman's husband.
I am confused by this fetish stuff... would this be a good thing or a bad thing?
I await further information. E. g. where do these people work?
@jespah,
(prolly not a shoe store...)
I could have gone the rest of my life without hearing Creepy McCreepy's foot fetish crap.
@glitterbag,
There's nothing wrong with a foot fetish - it is the MARRIED woman's status that is disturbing to me.
@PUNKEY,
I am more worried about the fact this woman is a CO-WORKER than her marital status.
@Region Philbis,
I just hope it's not a restaurant, between waiting tables.