@Emergency93,
Emergency93 wrote:
What are you talking about? I just want to see, if I want anything serious with this girl or not.
When someone says "I just" and then follows it with anything, it's usually bullshit.
"I just want to know"
Why?
"I just want to"
But what's the reason you want to?
"I just want to"
You want to know if she's a slut. What about you? You're the other half of this.
You already asked each other if either of you have done this sort of thing before, and the answer was No. There's your answer.
What the hell is a slut anyway? A woman who enjoys sex and is comfortable in getting it?
If this was a guy, you'd be calling him a stud.
You're dealing with some guilt/moral/sexuality/repression issue of your own. Don't lay that on her.
She's been nothing but upfront, and you're looking for some way to make yourself look like the person with higher standards.
You're what? I think you said 20? It's time you learned some valuable lessons about sex.
You're single, having consensual sex and it's just between the 2 of you. You are on equal footing in this relationship, regardless of what EITHER of you do or do not do with someone else. It's private.
Stop saying you want to see if you want a serious relationship with her, when all you really want is to find out if she's ******* other guys, or women, as well.
Christ almighty, you're 20. You don't need to be thinking about relationships. You need to be sowing some wild oats, and having fun, before the responsibilities of life land on you.
Like Frank said in a prior post. I hope you're not standing on a roof years from now when you realize what's going on right now.