Wrong concept, isn't it?

What the hell ever gave you any of those ideas?

It is, according to people, but who you are had nothing to do with other people. Unless of course you say so.

They did a study of approaches at social gatherings (bars, clubs, social gathering spots), and found that 80% of interactions were intiated by the woman...the guy may have done the approach, but only after the woman gave some sort of signal that he may approach.

Err - the nature of 'fighting' is quite different. From what I've seen, many more women part ways with their women friends over guys than the other way around.

'Fighting' happens on both sides - is there a point to this?

You might have to clarify what this question has to do with the previous two statements. After all, if you don't want that type of guy, don't marry that type of guy.

I believe the basis of her argument if base solely on a conceptual understanding of how 'relationships' (or perhaps just male/female interactions) are supposed to 'work'. Instead of actual experiences.