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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 06:23 pm
Hey, hope all is well! I have a question by the way. theres this girl who i met at the gym and we talked like 3 times for like 20 min each and then today i went and asked her for her number...... She then says are you gonna call me? and then i replied depends.. and then she said sorry i dont usually give out my number.. and then i said alrite no problem and left
what did i do wrong?
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ehBeth
 
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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 06:31 pm
@danielcheung1996,
I suspect that saying "depends" wasn't a good answer to ''are you going to call me?"

I know it would make me wonder why you were asking for my number if you weren't sure you were going to call me.

I wouldn't have given you my number with that response from you.
danielcheung1996
 
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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 07:02 pm
@ehBeth,
**** what should i have answered then my friend was telling me that was y too i just didint want to seem to needy Sad hahah
ehBeth
 
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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 07:08 pm
@danielcheung1996,
Why did you ask for her number?
danielcheung1996
 
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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 07:18 pm
@ehBeth,
cause i thought shes pretty cool and wanna ask her out haha
Ragman
 
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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 07:28 pm
@danielcheung1996,
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"She then says are you gonna call me?" And then I replied, "depends..." And then she said, "sorry I don't usually give out my number."

If you really wanted to come across as being sincerely interested, you should have said "Yes, I plan on calling you."
After all, she doesn't want to seem too desperate. And you want to come across as following through...good for your word.

Frankly, you may have blown it.
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ehBeth
 
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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 07:34 pm
@danielcheung1996,
so why not ask her out face-to-face?

if she's really cool she might give you a chance to redeem yourself



I don't get why people play those games about how they should seem - just be freaking honest.
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ehBeth
 
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Thu 24 Jul, 2014 07:35 pm
@danielcheung1996,
danielcheung1996 wrote:

**** what should i have answered


yes. I'd like to call you and talk to you some more.




simple

easy-peasy

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psychedelic
 
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Fri 25 Jul, 2014 02:11 am
@danielcheung1996,
Yeah I agree with the above ^

You should have said I won't be able to resist, she would have broke out into a smile & you'd have already started the flirting game Wink
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