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@chai2,

For some reason I hated their look since it first played.
I loathe Aquilera and this song and it makes me cringe to look at them.
I don't know why. This is why I am not going to listen. You all enjoy.
I just don't get it why you all printing lyrics to this song?

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@Eliusa,

Yay!

We finally got you to talk about something other than yourself! That's a start.

Ok, you don't like them, fair enough. It wasn't put up to please just you. It was for my soul sister, Found Soul.

If you don't get why the lyrics were printed, that's ok too.

I liked that some of the versions were printed, as I didn't know some of the verses.

Now stop being such a Grumpy Gus.

Let me clue you in about threads around here Eliusa. If a thread has a purpose, it'll be discussed for a while, which has been done here. After awhile, when it just gets repetitive, covering the same ground again or again, or just gets stale or boring, it'll morph.

Just like in real life, when the people you're talking to all silently agree the particular subject has gone on long enough, they'll start talking about something else.

In truth Eliusa, you're not in control of this thread, and can't force people to stay on whatever track you want. People are going to talk about what they want to talk about and that's just the way it goes.

If you don't get that, tough.

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@chai2,

I can post anything I want here as well, right? So if you don't like what I post - tough! Don't read it. Or read it. Whatever floats your boat.

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@Eliusa,

Yes you can....and you're right, I don't have to read it, and I haven't read quite a bit, but I read the amount I wanted to.

Just pointing out it's not revolving around you....or me, or any particular person. At this point, it seems everything that can be said about your situation has been said, by everyone. Maybe you feel you haven't, but honestly, you're not bringing anything new to the table. You're just re-hashing the same thing in slightly different way. You've gotten your advice, now it's up to you.

Check out some threads here (if you want) that aren't all tied up with people love problems, C'mon, live a little. Don't you get bored talking about your affair/non affair just a little bit?

Hey, join the party, you don't even have to rsvp!

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@Eliusa,

Hey Eliusa,

I had a heart attack (not really) when I read the first set of lyrics I posted, kinda like, whoa dirty.. So I posted the correct one after all that was the lyrics chai was referring to. In the end I read both whilst listening to the song and dancing around the computer. Yep, smiling and singing along and mentally thanking chai for giving me a break from same ol same ol..

I even saved the song..

You don't strike me as a conservative type.

And, I don't know it's kinda got that lusty feel to it in vision and sound but that's ok, not for you and I've already thanked chai.

But imagine. You, dancing around by the computer to a song that gets you going, smiling... There'd be no room for feeling sorry for yourself and you know what? If you do feel sorry for yourself then think, because we create what we are, what we do, who we are with and who we aren't with.

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@FOUND SOUL,

you are correct.
Not conservative. At all.
However had...had morals and never had done anything to hurt people I love.
This is why it is so friggin screwed up!

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@chai2,

No I am not tired of talking about my feelings. And I never will until it'll stop hurting. I need an outlet where I can at least type it and read it and get over it for a second or two.
I thought I can get over him and I said it and we haven't communicated for a few days but I had a break down when he said he can't keep away from me anymore. And we are talking again. Those moments I am happy!

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Dear diary.
My husband agreed on talking to a doctor about his condition.
And I had a pretty heat up conversation with my flame about our future where we had decided to still be friends and see what future holds.

I am relieved and love him now more than I could ever imagine.
For not forcing me into relationship I will be dying from guilt after.
For being so gorgeous from inside and on outside. I am still in love.
It doesn't hurt anymore though. Its sweet.

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Went to a doctor with husband.
Cialis was given for free. He isn't taking it. Yesterday tried to have dinner naked. Some actions - nothing for me...

Flame is still waiting, no pressure from his side, tells me he loves me, and I am so ready.
Know that his marital life is going down the hill.
Wondering if adult people who fell in love and having no physical relationships - can they really decide anything? What if they are not compatible and all this lust just a mistake?
Who actually divorce first and then finds out if sex with another person is good enough so they can thinking about changing their lives?

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@Eliusa,

Of course the marital thing is going downhill...you're in love with someone else! Let the poor guy(your husband) off the hook. Don't make him try in vain...he doesn't have a chance. Don't be a cruel jerk.

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@Germlat,

You just can't stay away from me, can you? Smile

)
My husband doesn't want off the hook. How am I cruel? I might going to sty with him to the rest of my life and take care of him.
Loving or not - not everyone jumping with joy being married for so long.
Frankly I think those who does are liars and cowards to admit that they wish they had some actions going on.

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@Eliusa,

Eliusa wrote:

You just can't stay away from me, can you? )
My husband doesn't want off the hook. How am I cruel? I might going to sty with him to the rest of my life and take care of him.
Loving or not - not everyone jumping with joy being married for so long.
Frankly I think those who does are liars and cowards to admit that they wish they had some actions going on.

You're the one who's a liar and a coward. I respect my spouse and my child.

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@Germlat,

Yes, but are you dying thinking about sex with your husband every day?
And leave children out of it. Respect my ass...stale pond is your respect.
Again you have NO idea that love can hit you were you don't expect.
And I wasn't looking for it. I was happily half-dead in my stale waters...
And a few month ago I would be giving those dry advices to everybody - just like you.

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@Eliusa,

Eliusa wrote:

Yes, but are you dying thinking about sex with your husband every day?
And leave children out of it. Respect my ass...stale pond is your respect.
Again you have NO idea that love can hit you were you don't expect.
And I wasn't looking for it. I was happily half-dead in my stale waters...
And a few month ago I would be giving those dry advices to everybody - just like you.

Why not DIVORCE ? You've never explained why you'd rather screw someone over...your story is stale.

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@Germlat,

OK, honestly tell me if you can. WHO does that? Divorcing a spouse just because I am in love with another man whom I had not even had sex yet?
What a stupid disposition! He loves me and happily unaware of anyfreakingthing. Why to break his heart just maybe for nothing??? Maybe I will just change my mind and no one gets hurt

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@Eliusa,

Eliusa wrote:

OK, honestly tell me if you can. WHO does that? Divorcing a spouse just because I am in love with another man whom I had not even had sex yet?
What a stupid disposition! He loves me and happily unaware of anyfreakingthing. Why to break his heart just maybe for nothing??? Maybe I will just change my mind and no one gets hurt

The point is your having him take drugs(Cialis) when you are in love with someone else is loathsome . I don't think you realize how unfair you are. If you don't realize that simple fact, I can imagine how aware you can possibly be of your husband's happiness. You don't notice but what interests you.

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@Eliusa,

Eliusa wrote:

WHO does that? Divorcing a spouse just because I am in love with another man

who does that? people who are not selfish.

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@Eliusa,

Eliusa wrote:

Loving or not - not everyone jumping with joy being married for so long.
Frankly I think those who does are liars and cowards to admit that they wish they had some actions going on.

you are truly offensive

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@Germlat,

Germlat wrote:

Of course the marital thing is going downhill...you're in love with someone else! Let the poor guy(your husband) off the hook. Don't make him try in vain...he doesn't have a chance. Don't be a cruel jerk.

word

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@Eliusa,

Eliusa wrote:

Flame is still waiting, no pressure from his side, tells me he loves me, and I am so ready.

why not put some pressure on 'flame'? tell him you need him to leave his family so you can be sure he is serious about you

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