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Thu 13 May, 2004 06:50 am
I know this seems an odd question, but someone wrote on my porn thread that the best part has been said to be walking up the stairs (to the bedroom, presumably) - and this got me thinking.
You know, the flirting and anticipation - especially if it is lengthy (as it has sometimes been for me - like a YEAR once - don't ask why ,'tis a long story - and sometimes it's been six months or so) is extremely delicious - the heightened excitement when you are with the person - the advances, the withdrawals, the ridiculous badinage.......
Then - the moment when you know it is gonna be - the first touches....the gazing into of eyes.....the er....business of the thing.....the afterglow...the warm intimacy afterwards.....which is best for you?
Heehhe - I have been asking lots of folk this in real life, too. People are so starting to wonder about me....last time it was about circumcision to the guys....
Anticipation, the thrill of the hunt. All the rest is just a bonus.
Our brave first taker!
I agree, sometimes.....
Of course, for Australian men it is, so legend has it, getting to the pub afterwards and telling their mates....
Well, when you are married, the hunt becomes a greater challenge, and there is no victory in telling yer mates you had sex with your wife.
Hmmmmmmm - lotsa wussy lurkers here!
I await further replies. <tap tap tap>
yep - we're up sh*t creek without a paddle here....
Maybe the lurkers are the types who like to fold their clothes first, before getting down to business.
Yeah - and floss. Not that there's anything wrong with it....
I don't think I EVER slept with anyone who folded stuff, though!
Well, neither have I, but rumour is that the folders exist. As for flossing, I prefer 'alternative' methods for cleaning inbetween my teeth.
Everything - I dont play favorites.
Wiping off on the girls curtains used to be my favorite thing.....
Well, I'm one of the two people who actually voted: anticipation. Oh, & warm fuzzy feelings are nice, too.
The best bit differs for me depending on the circumstances.
I can tend to let my imagination run away with me so anticipation is high on my best-list.
I also am a big fan of the first touch especially if it is done in an accidental/innocent way but you know it was really deliberate - like a hand brushing against ..... whatever. My nerves get tightened and my senses start overloading. Again this is akin to the anticipation feeling.
Of the actual intercourse itself, smashing, but I do like to vary it from time to time. A little role-playing here and there doesn't go amiss.
Maybe it might be a deal-breaker, the folding?
"I'm sorry - I changed my mind."
"WHAT!!!??"
"You folded your clothes."
"SO WHAT??!!!""
"That is too obsessive - I think you're too anal for me. It's not gonna work - what if there are unfortunate noises? You're gonna freak, aren't you?"
"Noises?"
"yeah - you know - (whispers)....."
"OHMIGAWD!!!!" ...runs....
That's a hard question to answer dlowan....I guess each part is special and best in their own way.
The anticipation part is maddening to the point of being uncomfortable. It's a delicious sick though LOL. The actual getting together...making it happen can either be wonderful or dissapointing because often times, the experience you anticipate will happen in your minds eye...the way you imagine the encounter to be (storybook, romantic, wonderful lover) doesn't turn out that way in reality, but sometimes it does and the experience lives up fully to your expectations. The afterglow is another mixed bag. If it's with your spouse it's absolutely wonderful. A time to feel safe and secure...truly loved by your life partner. The afterglow with someone who is not your spouse is a mixed bag of feelings. Yes, some are wonderful but you also know that your time together is limited, so you savor every moment because you don't know when it will happen again...or even if it ever will. The pain of saying goodbye is always in the back of your mind as well and can dampen the experience as well.
I wish first kiss was a choice on the poll.
Mmmmm - first touch - especially if "accidental...."
dlowan wrote:Maybe it might be a deal-breaker, the folding?
"I'm sorry - I changed my mind."
"WHAT!!!??"
"You folded your clothes."
"SO WHAT??!!!""
"That is too obsessive - I think you're too anal for me. It's not gonna work - what if there are unfortunate noises? You're gonna freak, aren't you?"
"Noises?"
"yeah - you know - (whispers)....."
"OHMIGAWD!!!!" ...runs....
Is 'queef' in the vulgarity filter? As for "accidental", don't fall for the popcorn bucket in the lap trick.
Ah the queef......when you're so happy...everything has to laugh.......
Hmmm - queef seems not to be.....I like the casual reach for the book, or such....
Hey! The lurkers went back in!
WHAT other stuff? But - don't be graphic....
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