@glitterbag,
UPDATE - Resolution -
I have been traveling and doing shows since the last post, so I have not been in the picture. According to her brother, also a friend of mine, things got nasty when the husband continued with his playing the field, imitating my “lifestyle” as it was. A woman he was seeing has turned up pregnant.. by him.
His divorce is pending (with his current wife), mostly due to actions by the wife’s brother. The husband has been shamed by her family and somewhat by his own.
I continue as a friend to:
- The wife, as she writes and calls somewhat regular.
- The wife’s Brother, who encourages my friendship with his sister, once the divorce is final. I am hosting a gift to him and his wife of a cruise. We are also talking about his sister joining them, if the divorce is final at that point.
- The Ex-Husband MAY marry the pregnant woman, following his divorce, to take responsibility for the child. We do not go out clubbing anymore, but have shared a few beers over football games.
I have kept my apartment, as I could not find anything nearly as nice or with a seaside location for anywhere near the same money. I also remain nearby and friends, keeping the past… in the past.
During this Ramazan Bayram, I still carry a certain amount of guilt but remain happy (çok mutlu) with the outcome. I am not Muslim, but do regard my friends as my family.
Thank you very much (çok teşekkür ederim) for the comments.