Ok, I will have the first go:
The most that can be taken is 6+6. The least 1+1 You start with an even number. You finish with an even number +1. If your opponent chooses odd, you choose odd, (back to even). If they choose, even you do the same.
Your opponent must be left with 8 on their turn for you to be certain to win.
Well at least I tried.