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WBYeats
 
Reply Fri 11 Apr, 2014 01:23 pm
Siuation:

A friend of mine has just asked me a question, which question is very awkward, and which I do not want to answer. What tense is correct/wrong?:

1. - I hope this is the only time you asked/have asked/are asking such a question.

2. In grammar books we often find this:

-This is the first/second etc. time you HAVE DONE sth

but do native speakers not think Britons/Americans would write/say?:

-It/this marks the first time such action is being taken...
-It was his first time to do...
-This is the first time he suggests...
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dalehileman
 
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Reply Fri 11 Apr, 2014 01:48 pm
@WBYeats,
I hope this is the only time you'll ask such a question.
WBYeats
 
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Reply Sat 12 Apr, 2014 12:53 am
@dalehileman,
Thank you~

But isn't the act of asking already in the past?
JTT
 
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Reply Sat 12 Apr, 2014 01:06 am
@WBYeats,
Quote:
I hope this is the only time you asked/have asked/are asking such a question.


I hope this is the only time you ask me a question.
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dalehileman
 
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Reply Sat 12 Apr, 2014 11:39 am
@WBYeats,
Quote:
But isn't the act of asking already in the past?
Technically yes
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JTT
 
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Reply Sat 12 Apr, 2014 12:34 pm
@WBYeats,
Quote:
A friend of mine has just asked me a question (,) which question is very awkward(,)and which I do not want to answer. What tense is correct/wrong?:


I hope this is the only time you asked/have asked such a question.

These two don't address the scenario you have described, WB. They could be used by the respondent if they held the dismissive meaning inherent in,

I hope this is the only time you ever asked/have ever asked such a dumb/stupid question.

The present perfect aspect would be the more likely of the two.

??I hope this is the only time you are asking such a question.

I can't envision a situation where this would work atall.
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WBYeats
 
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Reply Sat 12 Apr, 2014 10:32 pm
Thank you~

How about the second question? Is there any particular reason that HAVE DONE rather than DOES/DID etc should be used? If native speakers use it while grammar writers say it should not, then it's not mine to decide whether it is right/wrong.
JTT
 
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Reply Sat 12 Apr, 2014 11:01 pm
@WBYeats,
I really have no idea what you are driving at, WB.

What grammar writers? What do they say?
WBYeats
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 12:54 am
@JTT,
um...

2. In grammar books we often find this:

-This is the first/second etc. time you HAVE DONE sth

but do native speakers not think Britons/Americans would write/say?:

-It/this marks the first time such action is being taken...
-It was his first time to do...
-This is the first time he suggests...
JTT
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 08:44 am
@WBYeats,
Umm, you haven't described what these mysterious grammar writers say is wrong.
WBYeats
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 09:09 am
@JTT,

-It/this marks the first time such action is being taken...
-It was his first time to do...
-This is the first time he suggests...
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The tenses used by Britons/Americans do not comply with what grammarians prescribe: the perfect tense/aspect. If native speakers use these tenses, then how come they are wrong?
JTT
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 09:20 am
@WBYeats,
First, they are not wrong. Second, I wasn't aware that grammarians prescribed/prohibited such collocations.

Do you have a cite, a book that illustrates this?
WBYeats
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 10:16 am
@JTT,
Do you not think this is what we often find in grammar books?:

-This is the first time/second time etc, we HAVE DONE sth...
-... was..............................................,we HAD DONE sth...
JTT
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 10:22 am
@WBYeats,
I know and understand that, WB. You still haven't shown me the part where some grammarians say the other examples are wrong.

CONTEXT CONTEXT CONTEXT
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InfraBlue
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 12:59 pm
@WBYeats,
WBYeats wrote:

um...

2. In grammar books we often find this:

-This is the first/second etc. time you HAVE DONE sth

but do native speakers not think Britons/Americans would write/say?:

-It/this marks the first time such action is being taken...
-It was his first time to do...
-This is the first time he suggests...


No. If you're trying to reiterate what is being said by that first formation (present indicative) then your first alternative would be, "it/this marks the first time such action has been taken."

The second would be, "it was the first time he has done..."

The third would be, "this is the first time he has suggested..."
JTT
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 01:14 pm
@InfraBlue,
Quote:
No. If you're trying to reiterate what is being said by that first formation (present indicative) then your first alternative would be, "it/this marks the first time such action has been taken."


He is not looking for a reiteration, Infra, he is trying to find out how the others fit pragmatically in English. He sees what appears to him to be a contradiction.
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WBYeats
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 10:43 pm
@InfraBlue,
By ALTERNATIVE; you agree the original 3 sentences are all correct?
InfraBlue
 
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Reply Sun 13 Apr, 2014 11:32 pm
@WBYeats,
WBYeats wrote:

By ALTERNATIVE; you agree the original 3 sentences are all correct?

No. That's why I corrected them for you.
JTT
 
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Reply Mon 14 Apr, 2014 11:13 am
@WBYeats,
Quote:
If native speakers use it while grammar writers say it should not, then it's not mine to decide whether it is right/wrong.


Can you quote your source, any source, WB, where "grammar writers say it should not"?
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JTT
 
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Reply Mon 14 Apr, 2014 05:50 pm
@InfraBlue,
Quote:

WBYeats wrote:

By ALTERNATIVE; you agree the original 3 sentences are all correct?


Quote:
Infra: No. That's why I corrected them for you.


You didn't correct them at all, Infra. By your own description, you reiterated them.

Infra: "No. If you're trying to reiterate what is being said by that first formation (present indicative) then your first alternative would be, 'it/this marks the first time such action has been taken.'"

You even described the first one as the present indicative.
 

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