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am i chubby?!

 
 
Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 03:50 pm
i don't understand...when i was skinny many guys told me i was too skinny for their taste and all i read on the internet was that guys like big thighs. now that i've gained some weight a few said i was chubby. do i look like that? honestly...


i.imgur.com/uqDAsxD.jpg

i also work out
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Butrflynet
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 04:02 pm
@marybabe95,
Who cares what the guys think??? How do YOU feel about it? Are you healthy? Do you get proper nutrition and exercise for your body's needs?

Guys like someone with a smile and good self confidence.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 04:04 pm
@marybabe95,
I looked for it and saw you've deleted it already.

Get a grip, Mary. You seem to expect big changes to happen so that people who thought you were too thin will like how you look, and expect them very fast by eating a great deal and getting stomach pains. Now you worry that someone said you look chubby. This in something like a week.

Stop paying attention to online carpers and learn about nutrition.
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marybabe95
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 04:13 pm
@marybabe95,
wish I looked like this korean girl Sad http://i.imgur.com/HtwZGgj.jpg her body is so perfect!
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CoastalRat
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 04:26 pm
I think the OP is simply trolling. Her earlier post asks us to rate her pic. Now she wants to know if she is chubby and then links us to a pic she wants to look like. She either wants attention or is trying to push traffic to some site.
ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 04:39 pm
@CoastalRat,
I'll take the opposite point of view for now. She seems to have body dysmorphia (I dunno about that word) and low self esteem. We don't know any history and I usually don't ask since history isn't my business until people say.

I get your take though.
marybabe95
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 04:51 pm
@CoastalRat,
neither honestly
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contrex
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:29 pm
1. Why post just a link when you can do this:

http://i.imgur.com/uqDAsxD.jpg

2. Honey, take a chill pill! Seriously. if you have issues around your body shape, I don't think you're going about things the right way. Maybe you should seek counselling. A suggestion: turn off the computer and get out more!

http://i124.photobucket.com/albums/p29/badoit/Screengrab2_zps47fa749c.jpg
ehBeth
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:31 pm
@contrex,
whoa

that pic sure has been posted to a lot of sites

doesn't look anything like the woman from the other thread (is it supposed to?)

weird
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contrex
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:33 pm
@ossobuco,
ossobuco wrote:
She seems to have body dysmorphia (I dunno about that word) and low self esteem.


That is my impression too.
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contrex
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:35 pm
@CoastalRat,
CoastalRat wrote:
I think the OP is simply trolling. Her earlier post asks us to rate her pic. Now she wants to know if she is chubby and then links us to a pic she wants to look like. She either wants attention or is trying to push traffic to some site.


Good point. We don't even know if it is really "her" picture. Could be a malicious person posting someone else's picture.

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ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:39 pm
@contrex,
Thank you, Contrex, that is the first I've seen.


Good grief.
A beautiful woman whines about not being thought beautiful.
She is either some kind of tool or attention getter for whatever reason. Missing sense of self worth.

We all get scars or wrinkly or get chubby or thin if we live long enough and that is another kind of beauty, the life lines, the ways we are.

Your sense of beauty is magazine derived, Mary.

Do you just hate others as ugly walking down the street? Or do you only see magazine beautiful ones?

contrex
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:40 pm
@ossobuco,
ossobuco wrote:
She is either some kind of tool or attention getter for whatever reason.


I think we're converging on a diagnosis...
contrex
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:45 pm
@ossobuco,
ossobuco wrote:
Missing sense of self worth.


+1
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contrex
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:47 pm
@contrex,
If I met this on a blind date I would think I had got seriously lucky. Unless she turned out to be a Republican.

http://i.imgur.com/uqDAsxD.jpg
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:50 pm
@contrex,
Maybe that is someone she wants to look like.

I've over paying attention.
jcboy
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 05:53 pm
@ossobuco,
Me too, she's posted the same photo's and questions all over the internet since October of last year.
ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 06:00 pm
@jcboy,
So this is all promotional...

christ, what an asshole. Her, I mean.

I'm learning yet again.
As my business partner used to say, can't we stop learning?
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 06:34 pm
yahoo is deleting the questions one by one

something to do with their community guidelines
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neologist
 
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Reply Fri 10 Jan, 2014 08:40 pm
@ossobuco,
ossobuco wrote:
I'll take the opposite point of view for now. She seems to have body dysmorphia (I dunno about that word) and low self esteem. We don't know any history and I usually don't ask since history isn't my business until people say.

I get your take though.
Yeah. What you said.
 

 
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