I'll add, I'm writing as a person primarily from Los Angeles.
I have read bunches of books about India and never been there. I am surely no expert on your social mores in your own immediate area.
Why are you asking us (it is a whole world here on a2k) to answer you?
Keep in mind that, for both of you, the forbidden is a delight. That is the way of the world, world wide. That is sort of a starter thing.
That delight can lose its interest. Many - many - have found that out too late.
That delight can also work. Maybe.