Hehe, that was funny!
As for the OP: if you have to ask, then perhaps you should work on some excitement outside of the bedroom. Have your husband meet you at a bar,
be 10 minutes late, create some suspense. Wear a blonde wig, or if you're blonde wear a brunette one, slip in a sexy outfit and pretend you're just meeting for the first time.
Visit him at his office and surprise him. Should he have no private office,
then send him a suggestive note via cell phone, perhaps a revealing picture
what's waiting for him at home. Get more daring by the hour.....and so on.
What you really want is create suspense and excitement and everything else falls in place.