My dear brother
You are absolutely right and the words are true
This cultural problem, not an Islamic
Islam is innocent of that
Problem is bad in the way for the application of the methodology and the teachings of Islam, the merciful
Human world and the learner and the high morality differs completely ignorant
Indeed, in the Holy Qur'an and the Hadith
This proves the sincerity of the Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him
He speaks to the need for women's choice of the husband-good- Saleh - the ethics of high
So he can the leadership of the family easily
The woman put her love and confidence in him
* The Prophet peace be upon him: "If there comes one whose religious commitment and character you are pleased, however you do not do sedition in the land and great corruption," they said, O Messenger of God, although he said: "If there comes one whose religious commitment and character you are pleased but do not sedition in the land and great corruption. "said three times
Ibn `Umar (May Allah be pleased with them) reported: The Prophet (PBUH) said, "All of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects. The ruler is a guardian of his subjects, the man is a guardian of his family, the woman is a guardian and is responsible for her husbands house and his offspring; and so all of you are guardians and are responsible for your subjects."[Al-Bukhari and Muslim].
This Hadith ordains every individual in society, whether he is a ruler or ruled citizen or even a woman who leads her life within the four walls of her house, to perform his duties within his own sphere. Not only that, every person has been made responsible to reform the state of affairs in his control and establish equity and justice because he will be held accountable for any negligence on his part in this respect.