Gosh, hawk, you really do sound harsh
Good sex and good living both require being hard at the right time and in the right places. Being harsh is not a negative necessarily.
We can only speak from ourselves.
From our experience and observations, yes. Your point is?
Whatever has made you so cold?
What you call cold I call prudence. Americans are too soft and too stupid, I call for moving away from that
They become useless? Really?
. Yes, People who can not look after themselves, who are dependent upon their parents and the government are useless. Parents and governments who work to instill this dependency are guilty of abuse.
What makes you so useful?
Being smart, not afraid of work, and during my life being observant enough to have a clue what is going on around me.
Probably that you have freedom
A lot less then I had a couple of decades ago, things are looking pretty grim on the individual liberty front.
can come & go as you wish
I encounter people who want to boss me around all the time
with no bully hanging about?
Bullshit, there are a LOT of bullies in America right now, it is one of the primary power plays that work right now because too few people have the wisdom and the ability to stand up to bullies. I do.