May I point out one or two inconsistencies in your postings.
First off: Why do people post on this site?To get the input or advice of others.
But in reply to ossobucco you say "If I want your input or advice I'll ask for it".
You wrote,speaking of ossobucco as "A woman who isn't Christian and is probably white".In another post you quote, "Judge not,that ye be not judged".
You complain about people but say "I don't let their laughing bother me."
You state "I'm a man of God." the usual concept of a Man of God is a minister of religion, and despite your many and varied claims to greatness I'm yet to read where you've taken the cloth.
"I'm not going to date till I'm ready to get married."
Yet you post asking about dating sites,so one must assume you're ready.